How To Get Rock-Solid Confidence With Women

If you want to develop ROCK-SOLID confidence with
women - and enjoy the feeling that you can meet
any woman anywhere, and know for sure that your
confidence will attract her to you quickly - then
I highly recommend that you check out my "Deep
Inner Game" program. It's like STEROIDS for your
confidence with women... and the only place you
can learn what's in it is right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame

I have a fascinating story to share with you.

If you're interested in boosting your
confidence with women, then you'll find this story
EXTREMELY valuable...

Here goes...

There once was a nice, smart guy who fell in
love with an amazing woman.

He couldn't believe how lucky he was to find
this one special person in his life.

After they dated for 2 blissful years, he took
her on a trip to the south of France... and
proposed to her.

To his relief, she said yes.

They were both so very happy.

Over the next year, they began to plan their
future together... including their wedding.

At the time, he was in medical school and he
felt guilty for leaving her alone so much while he
studied.

He told her:

"Honey, I want you to go out and meet some
people. It's not right that you stay home at night
just because I'm studying to become a doctor."

Well, she took his advice... and went out.

And one night, she STAYED OUT...

...all night...

...with an NFL quarterback, no less.

When our friend found out what happened, he was
DEVASTATED.

As you could imagine, this experience literally
turned his world upside down

But eventually he picked himself up...

... and when he did, he made a pledge to
himself...

He would do WHATEVER it took to figure out the
"inner game" of attraction, so that he could
become the kind of guy who could attract and keep
a high quality woman in a relationship, for as
long as he wanted... so he'd never have to go
through this pain again.

....

OK, now, the shocking thing about the story
above - is that it's NOT a "story."

It actually happened.

And the man it happened to is a very good
friend of mine... named Dr. Paul.

He's a world-renowned psychiatrist (not to
mention author, actor, model, and all around cool
guy)...

He literally is one of the most brilliant
minds I've ever met... and his knowledge of the
human mind is so deep that I had him help create
and present live on stage my Deep Inner Game
program.

If you're curious about getting your inner
game "handled" and developing rock-solid
confidence with women, I have some great news...

This month's Interviews With Dating Gurus...
is with Dr. Paul himself.

If you'd like to learn how to get in touch
with that masculine core inside of you - the core
that can attract women EFFORTLESSLY - then you
really need to check out this interview.

One of the things he shared is his definition
of POWER.

He says that part of Power is "positive
emotional energy," which has two parts:

1) Confidence

2) Well-being

He went on to say that you get more confidence
by transforming anxiety into courage. Or in other
words, by doing what you fear, over and over...

And you get more well-being by transforming
your anger into assertively getting your needs
met.

When you do those two things over and over - do
what you fear, and assertively go out and get your
needs met, you build your confidence and well-
being... which builds your "positive emotional
energy"... which makes you DAMN attractive to
women.

Here are just a few more of the secrets he
shared:

- How to get rock-solid confidence with women
(even if you tend to be a "shy" kind of guy)

- How to take the pressure off yourself when
you meet a new woman (so you come across as "cool
and collected")

- How to develop an Island of Resilience - so
that no woman can throw you off your game or make
you too nervous

- How to tell a woman's "personality type" the
instant you meet her - and how to tweak your
communication to fit her type so she feels
magnetically drawn to you.

- Why your future with a woman is made or
destroyed in the first 3 seconds you meet a woman
(and how to use those first few seconds to
maximize your chances of success)

- A critical lesson from Improv Comedy you can
use to create a strong connection with any woman
you meet

- How to let the wuss inside you die - and how
to make "friends" with the shadow inside yourself
- so you can unleash your ability to attract
women... and boost the confidence you enjoy in
EVERY part of your life

- How to have "mature boundaries" with women
(and why telling women "no" will EXPLODE your
success in dating and life...)

- The 4 different masculine archetypes - the
King, Warrior, Magician, and Lover - and how to
figure out which one YOU are (so you can unlock
your personal power)...

- and MUCH more...

I'm going to release this interview as this
month's edition of my "Interviews With Dating
Gurus" Monthly CD Audio Program.

If you're already a subscriber, sit tight.
You'll have it in your hands soon.

If you're not?

Well then... now would be a GREAT time for you
to sign up.

The secrets to confidence and mastering your
Inner Game that you'll learn in this interview can
literally change your life.

They will have a deep impact on your perspective
and where you're "coming from" when you interact
with women.

If you apply his teachings, you are practically
guaranteed to get more confidence with women...
more confidence in general... and to feel more
free to express the man you really are in EVERY
situation.

If Inner Game is something that interests you,
you'd be crazy NOT to listen to this interview.

But, there's a catch:

This interview is going to press this Thursday
morning, so I need you to be on board by
WEDNESDAY, April 15th at Midnight (PST) to make
sure you get your hands on it.

You can sign up here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/InterviewSeries

When you do, I'm also going to send you a free
"bonus" interview CD to say thanks for signing up.

This bonus interview is one of my personal
favorites... and I can't wait for you to hear it.

The best part?

I'm so confident that you are going to LOVE the
bonus interview and the interview with Dr. Paul...
that I am willing to make you a BETTER than 100%
guarantee.

Get them. Listen to them. If the information
you learn doesn't improve your Inner Game and
confidence in a BIG way, let me know.

Not only will I refund every cent of your
money, but I'm going to let you KEEP BOTH
interviews... just to say thanks for giving my
program a fair try.

That's how confident I am that these two
interviews will BLOW YOUR MIND.

Go ahead and sign up right now while you're
thinking about it - before you get distracted by
things that aren't nearly as important as getting
this part of your life handled, once and for all.

You have absolutely NOTHING to lose... and a
whole new perspective on women and life to gain.

Here's the link:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/InterviewSeries

Listen, if you're not learning all the tips my
guest experts share each month... then you really
need to start.

These interviews - like the one I did with Dr.
Paul - are PACKED with all kinds of secrets and
tips on how to become the kind of guy that
naturally triggers a gut-level attraction response
in women... in any situation you find yourself in.

Go here now if you'd like to get your hands on
the audio CD of this interview:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/InterviewSeries


If you know that your Inner Game could use some
"tuning up"... and you want to get an in-depth
education on exactly how to do it, then you should
also check out my "Deep Inner Game" program.

It's all about the psychology of overcoming your
inner limitations, fixing "belief-level" problems,
and developing a rock-solid self image and high
self-esteem. so you can confidently meet and
attract women.

It's the only program of its type. because it
takes the scientific breakthroughs from the field
of psychology, and applies them to this SPECIFIC
challenge of becoming more successful with women
and dating.

And as I said, Dr. Paul and I co-created this
program - and his wisdom takes this program to the
NEXT LEVEL.

Here are just a few of the specific you'll learn
in the program:

- How to patch up the holes in your self-esteem
FOR GOOD and build a rock-solid foundation of
confidence that all women "feel" when they're
around you

- Why human nature can actually PREVENT you from
having success with women. and what you absolutely
must do to overcome your "bad programming" and
start living the life you were born to live

- A 2-step exercise to identifying exactly how
you are letting women control your actions so you
can eliminate their influence and be YOUR OWN
person (Which in turn will cause you to attract
women like crazy)

- Do you ever feel like you are just too "nice"
or sensitive, or have a hard time saying "no"?
Here's a simple technique you can use when you
FEEL this happening to clear your head and make
the right choice

- A simple change in your attitude that will
prevent a woman from ever trying to take control
of your life

- Do you find that the women you are REALLY
interested in seem to LOSE interest in you after a
few dates? Here's why. (It's a surprisingly easy
fix once you know the reason)

- and MUCH more...

I would love for you to try my Deep Inner Game
program along with your copy of my interview with
Dr. Paul, because you'll not only learn how to
instantly improve your confidence with women, but
you'll also learn critical skills to move more
powerfully through LIFE.

If you go to the link below and "opt in" to my
monthly interview series, I'll send you:

-- A copy of my Deep Inner Game program on either
CD or DVD for you to try free for a month before
you need to decide to pay for it, or return it and
pay nothing

-- A copy of my interview with Dr. Paul on audio
CD and the special bonus CD

-- A new interview mailed to you once a month each
month, unless you decide you want to stop
receiving them. You can cancel ANYTIME. There's no
long-term obligation whatsoever.

But if you want to have my interview with Dr.
Paul, you have to place your order by midnight
this Wednesday, April 15th.

Here's where to learn more about my Deep
Inner Game program, get some free tips on how to
improve your confidence and inner strength right
away, and watch free video clips from the program:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame

Don't waste another day letting fear, anxiety,
or insecurity hold you back from the women - and
life - you deserve.

Try my Deep Inner Game program for free for 30
days and see for yourself how much help and value
you'll get immediately.

And if you're not interested in my interview
with Dr. Paul right now, that's fine - just "opt
out" of the interview series and simply get a copy
of the Deep Inner Game program sent to you
(although I recommend you get BOTH):

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/DeepInnerGame

And if you JUST want the interview with Dr.
Paul, go here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/InterviewSeries

I'll talk to you soon.

David D.

How To Read A Woman's "Body Language"

Women constantly send body language "messages"
that reveal what she's feeling and what she wants
- if you can't "decode" these messages, a woman
will INSTANTLY get turned off. Learn how to avoid
this mistake - and know exactly when a woman wants
you to "make your move" - here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage


In a moment, I'm going to share how you can give a
woman a gut-level feeling of attraction for you...
using only your body language.

Best of all, you can use this knowledge to get
women to start approaching YOU.

But first, let me ask you...

Have you ever thought that if you just knew the
right words to say to a woman - or the perfect
"pick up line" - then you would have no problem
meeting women?

Most guys believe this.

For a long time, I believed this too.

But -

Have you ever approached a woman with what you
thought was a good "line", but she totally blew
you off?

I mean, you planned before hand what you were
going to say... and your delivery was perfect...
it HAD to work... but she rejected you anyway.

You might find this shocking, but here's the
truth:

There's a good chance she rejected you BEFORE you
said a single word.

That's right.

And if that's true, it means her rejecting you had
NOTHING to do with what you SAID.

Whatchoo talkin' 'bout Willis?

It's a bit of a mind scrambler, I know...

So, if your words weren't the thing that turned
her off, what did?

To figure this out, you have to take the
perspective of the woman...

The fact is, an attractive woman gets hit on ALL
THE TIME.

She's forced to develop ways to size men up fast -
and reject men who don't "measure up" IMMEDIATELY.

She's heard every line in book - so many times, in
fact, that she's learned to look BEHIND the lines
at something deeper... something that gives her a
clue to what the man is really like on the
INSIDE...

You know what this thing is?

It's...

BODY LANGUAGE.

If your body language suggests to her in any way
that you're not what she's looking for - that
you're not "man enough" - she will already have
made up her mind about you... BEFORE you even open
your mouth.

Faster than you can say "Game Over"... it's OVER.

But...

If your body language communicates the right
message to her, it almost doesn't matter WHAT YOU
SAY.

You're "in".

Say what?

In other words, you can approach a woman with even
a cheesy pick up line, or a compliment she's heard
five times that day - but if you're body language
is "right," she'll be open and receptive to you.

Interesting...

The fact is body language is CRITICAL to success
with women.

If you know how it works, the world if full of
opportunities.

If you don't, the world is full of rejection.

If you want to make a woman feel powerful sexual
attraction for you, you must learn how to show her
the body language she comes "pre-programmed" to
respond to.

Most guys have no idea what this is.

Instead they spend years looking for the perfect
words to say... never realizing that the wrong
body language will KILL your chances for success,
even if you use a great approach or "line."

After years of studying this topic - taking what I
learned from guys who are true MASTERS of body
language, and combining it with what I learned
from "evolutionary psychology" and my own
experience with women - I decided it was time I
put together a program that reveals the secrets of
how to use body language to attract women FAST.

A program that ANY GUY can use and see INSTANT
results.

I want you to take a minute and read how I
developed the most COMPREHENSIVE program for
learning how to attract women with Body Language -
so you can tell instantly how a woman is feeling,
whether or not she's interested in you, and
exactly what you need to do to take things to the
"next level" - right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

You'll also see video clips of a special live
program I did, teaching guys how to project the
right "signals" so you can make a woman feel
powerful sexual attraction for you... even ACROSS
A ROOM.

Go here now and check it out:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your friend,

David D.


PS: Most men will go to their graves never knowing
how to read a woman's body language. But you can
have an "unfair advantage" over other men once you
discover the secrets to picking up on these
special cues. Don't miss another woman trying to
tell you she likes you with her body language - go
here right now:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/BodyLanguage

How And Why Women "Test" You

>NOTE: If you're interested in getting a VERY in-
depth education on how to approach women in every
possible situation, then make sure you read this:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen


Now let's talk about how to meet women...

***COMMENT***

Dave,

I have been reading your emails for a while now.
Honestly I have been skeptical, Ive taken bad
advice from people in the past, and truthfully
only read your emails for the fun of it. I was
reading one morning while sitting kind of nervous
about this girl who clearly is interested, however
I have always been sort of self-conscious, not
realizing that in the past I have missed soo many
opportunities w/ many fine looking ladies, ya dig.

As I was reading it hit me, that what you are
saying is the truth. All it is simply put is Have
fun with the girl...just relax, and lead the show.
I dont think i have ever quite grasped any such
truth as this one. Although I am a slow learner,
I like you, am a scientist of how people
(including females) react and interact with
different situations, scenarios and environments.
I'm going to be real with you, your research
results are intriguing, and I for one am
thoroughly satisfied with what you are teaching us
males who, at one time or another did not have a
clue on how to get laid, but now do. I salute
you brother,

Holla back from Connecticut. M.N.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, it's been a LOOOONG time since I've
read the words "skeptical", "scientist",
"environments", "ya dig", and "Holla back" all in
one email.

I feel ya, dog. Poignant, yet profound.

I sure hope you don't use that unique balance
of proper English and Jive with the lizzadies.

And by the way, I'm not trying to teach men how
to "get laid". I'm teaching guys how to keep their
power for themselves, and how to give women what
they REALLY want...and how to trigger that emotion
called ATTRACTION, so that when the day comes that
they meet a TRULY AMAZING woman, they know what to
do to get and KEEP her (and if you want to have
some fun while you're learning, that's cool with
me too!).


***QUESTION***

Holy Crap!

Who would have know that a clueless guy like me
concerning women and dating, could go from being a
DUD to a STUD in only a matter of months?! I know
that the word "MONTHS" seems like a long time, but
I 'm one of those slow learners that really needed
to "Get It" at a deep level, before I started to
have success with women. I own both your book and
your advanced CD series, both of which have
literally changed my life forever! The
information that you taught us about Reframing our
limited beliefs was primarily the most POWERFUL
thing to me. The second most POWERFUL bit of
information that you shared on your advanced
series is what I have a question about. I noticed
that when dealing with, say, 7's & 8's, I have
"all" of the power. But when I interact with 9's
and 10's, I begin to feel unsure of myself a lot
of times.

David, you teach us in the CD series to assert OUR
reality up front. You said that the person who
believes that their reality exists the most and
who is able to communicate it the best, will
convince everyone around them that THIS reality is
what is real. So how do I build my reality? So
far, I have just decided that I won't tolerate
manipulative behavior, flakiness, rudeness (due to
that Cosmo girl - "superiority" mentality), etc.
But do I actually need to read a book about
building my reality, or do I just, from my
numerous interactions with women, DECIDE how I
want to build my reality (which means that I will
continue to make amendments to it over time until
I find the reality that suits me)? I think that I
MIGHT have answered my own question already. . . .
But ANY input would be GREATLY appreciated David.
V, from Oklahoma

>>>MY COMMENTS:

As you've heard me talk about in my Advanced
Series, it is VERY important that you look at the
world as "Your Reality", and behave as if this is
the case.

One way to "build" that reality is to IMAGINE
it vividly.

Einstein said that "Imagination is more
important than knowledge"... and a great marketing
genius named Roy Williams says that our minds are
far better suited to imagination than reality
ANYWAY.

So let me ask YOU...

If you could have your life be any way you
want, how would that be?

What would happen in your reality?

I was talking with a good friend of mine about
two weeks ago, and we decided that as humans
living in modern times, we can live almost any
life we want... if only we decide what that life
is going to be, and put our full attention on
making that our reality.

I know I'm starting to sound a little bit
"self-helpish" here, but this is the way it is.

And since I'm already ranting and raving like a
crazed guy who wants to give your inner child a
hug, I might as well go off on a random tangent
that I'm thinking about...

The night before last, I went out with three
friends.

All guys.

We went to watch a mutual friend's band play at
a bar, then went to another bar... and then
another.

At the third place, one of my friends saw a
girl that he wanted to meet.

She was what you might call an "L.A. Hottie".
She had on a bright red jacket that looked like
something an Indy car driver might wear... and she
had that look on her face that said "I'm pissed,
but I know I'm sexy when I'm pissed, so I'm going
to stay that way".

I looked at my friend and said, "Let's go".

As my friend and I were walking toward her, he
was asking me what he should say to her.

I realized something in that moment:

1) He was in a place mentally that was beyond
something that a "pick up line" would fix.

2) He was about to talk to a "professional" when
it comes to being approached by men.

3) He needed to learn something, not get the girl.

In the end, he said something to her (I won't
go into detail because it's not important), she
acted stuck up, and we walked away.

BUT HERE'S THE IMPORTANT PART...

It was obvious that he was feeling a little bit
uncomfortable about the whole interaction... about
approaching a hot, "unapproachable" girl, then
having her "shoot him down".

So I said, "Now what's the big deal? Does it
matter at all? NO!" Then I said, "Let's go talk to
someone else!". And we got back into the game, we
didn't sit on the sidelines feeling sorry for
ourselves.

I think that it's important to realize that
your reality is what you MAKE OF IT.

I have done a lot of "inner work" on my own
reality, and I've come to a deep understanding and
realization that no woman can take away my joy and
positive outlook on the world UNLESS I GIVE HER
THE POWER TO DO SO.

So guess what?

Women don't upset me anymore.

Use your IMAGINATION to create a reality that
you WANT to live in, and then start living there.
No one is going to call you up and say "Hey, I am
granting you permission to live the life you
want... so get to it."

You're going to have to CREATE the reality that
you want to live in... and then start living
there.


***QUESTION***

David-

I began reading your newsletter about 14 months
ago, and I purchased the ebook about 6 months ago.
The personal development that has occurred in me
since then has been astounding.

My confidence has increased dramatically. When you
are confident, people notice, and they
automatically respect you and want to be around
you. This breeds even more confidence. Women's
reactions to me has also changed significantly.
All of the sudden they want to talk to me, do
things for me, and be around me. Often times I
can't understand it, but I just keep acting the
same because it works. The mailbags have been key
to keeping me sharp so that I don't have wuss
attacks.

I have had a girlfriend for 6 months who is
incredible in personality, intelligence, and
looks. You were right when you said that getting
hot women does not make other guys like you more
but rather they become secretly jealous. This is a
good problem to have, however, and I guess the
price of success is having some people dislike you
for it, which I can deal with. Anyway, I realize
that you don't often talk about relationships but
here is the question: Will the physical
transitions that I make with her become old and
predictable?

For example, I have used the smell technique
successfully a few times, but sometimes she seems
impartial to it. I always do the teasing/soft
touch thing too, which used to get her anxious and
excited but now seems to be less exciting and more
predictable. How can I mix things up? The hair tug
has also worked magically well, when done at the
right time.

I guess I would like your thoughts on getting her
physically turned on other than with my
personality, and I would like your thoughts on
predictability when getting physical.

Thanks for all you do.

-T, Minnesota

>>>MY COMMENTS:

DANGER WILL ROBINSON... DANGER!

I just can't avoid relationship questions... I
try, but I can't do it.

STOP BEING PREDICTABLE.

You've only heard me say it about a bazillion
times now.

My thoughts on "predictability when getting
physical" are as follows:

DON'T.

Here are three things that would be MUCH better
than becoming predictable:

1) Shooting yourself in the foot with a BIG gun.

2) Buying a Pinto Station Wagon.

3) Taking a moment every day to CONSCIOUSLY avoid
set patterns in your life that KILL attraction.

Take it from me, a man who has screwed up more
than one relationship by becoming predictable...

DON'T.

And one more quick thought: I've discovered one
other secret to making sure that a woman NEVER
loses her attraction for you. It's a deep concept,
and it's part of a very in-depth program I've put
together called "Mastery With Women And Dating".
It's my most intense program, period. If you want
to learn this secret to keeping a woman attracted
to you, then go take a look at this website:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Mastery


***QUESTION***

HI

My initials are J.E.S. from Illinois and i was
wondering does your method help put magic back in
a relationship? I have been married for 17 years
and my wife tells me she doesn't love me because
she doesn't find me sexually attractive. My
problem is that I still love her and find her
incredibly attractive is there anything I can do?

Sincerely, J.E.S.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yeah, I know... ANOTHER relationship question.

I must be in too good of a mood or something.

I just couldn't help but answer this one...

For women, SEXUAL ATTRACTION has more to do
with your personality, communication, and body
language than your LOOKS.

I've had many married men use my materials to
re-ignite their relationships with their wives
(even though I have never intended this to
happen).

If you want to get the "spark" back, stop
acting like a Wuss, stop being predictable, start
doing things that build ANTICIPATION... and learn
how to amplify attraction when you create it.

Oh, and hurry up.


***QUESTION***

You are my new babe GURU!

I am 43 years old, decent looking guy, make a very
average income. I was on a date with a STUNNING
bikini model and used aloof body language, played
it very low key, while being C & F. After our date
I leaned away from her against my drivers side
door and drove up to her home to drop her off.
Just pulled up and said good night. She wouldnt
leave the car and kept talking. I was polite and
aloof. she wouldnt leave and she kept staring at
me when there was a lull in the conversation. i
just sat there thinking, OK you can go now. she
didnt know what to do. finally she said can we go
out again?, I said maybe. and she said can I call
you to see you again?. i said call me if you have
something fun for me to do. it felt so good to not
be needy or pushy and it worked like a charm. Cant
wait for my next date. I will not call her and I
know she will be calling soon! Thanks for changing
my life, i look forward to more results like that.
I have started to think I have what women need
when I talk to them and it feels really great!

Thanks a million!!! RK in Hollywood

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, you're a stud.

But next time, when you're out in the car in
front of the house with a BIKINI MODEL and she
asks you if she can call you to see you again...
say "Yeah, maybe. Don't you have a cool new stereo
or fish tank that you want to show me?"

I feel ya on the non-needy thing, but you'd
better be writing in soon with a letter that
starts out with:

"...It was a good thing I let her go that
night, because NEXT time I saw her..."

I'll be waiting.

And GREAT job leaning back, not being needy,
and giving this particular girl an experience that
was MUCH different and MUCH more interesting and
exciting than any she's had recently.


***COMMENT***

DAVE MAN, PLEASE STOP MAKING UP URE CASE STUDIES
AND CUSTOMER RESPONSE STORIES THEY ARE FALSE AND
PORTRAY U AS A GENIOUS! U CAN HAVE A PERFECTLY
GOOD MAILBAG WITHOUT MAKING UP FALSE STORIES FROM
FALSE PEOPLE.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

DORK MAN, I do not and have not made up any
"case study" or "customer response story" ever.

Not even one, not at any time, no no no.

Every one of these letters is real, and they're
all from real people.

I actually go to extra efforts to keep every
single email that I get just in case I need to
prove this point to a dork like you in the future.

Of course, the privacy of my readers and
customers is more important than anything to me
(in other words, I'll never reveal the identities
of anyone who writes me publicly).

But if you want to put a little money on the
table and bet me... and fly out here to Los
Angeles to give it to me... I'd be glad to prove
it to you in person.

Let me know!


***QUESTION***

Dear Dave:

I've been receiving your e-mails for a while now,
and a buddy of mine bought me your program after I
broke up with my ex fiance saying I had been out
of the game for too long and needed a little help.
I just wanted to tell you about an experience that
I had a while back. I am 27 years old and dating
a 10 latin hottie that is 8 years older than me. I
ran into her at a local club last June and she had
a mutual friend introduce us. After talking to her
for a while I asked her to dance and she said she
couldn't because she came with a friend and didn't
want to disrespect him. I said "oh and talking to
me isn't disrespecting him?" I told her that if
she wanted to dance with me that I would be at
another part of the club and if I didn't have
another good looking girl on my arm to ask me to
dance. I said it being funny and she started
laughing, but this pretty much got her thinking.
I walked off and she wouldn't leave me alone for
the rest of the night, she kept on coming over to
where I was but never danced with me. At the end
of the night she came to me and said she wanted to
give me her number, I said that I was too old to
play her games and I didn't even want it and said
that I'll be there in a few weeks and if she
wanted to dance to meet me there.

Ok, using your techniques I had this girl pretty
much eating out of the palm of my hand because she
kept calling a mutual friend that was with me
asking him for my number. I told my friend not to
give it to her and to tell her that I was to busy
helping poor orphan kids find their parents. She
showed up a few weeks later at the club by herself
and the first thing she did was give me a kiss. I
still use the c&f on her to this day. She is
eating out of the palm of my hand and has been
with me since that night. This girl has men
hitting on her constantly, even when I am around.
She was a model in Mexico and I am just an average
looking guy, so yes your program does work and I
urge everyone to get it as soon as they can. I
can't thank you enough for all your help.

PCIII Texas

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well what can I say to that?

Someone should give you a kiss. And it had
better not be me.

You have told a story that demonstrates a
principle that most men will NEVER get...

Women don't PURSUE men who pursue THEM.

I don't really say what I'm about to say too
often, because it's really beyond most men to even
understand, and quite frankly, a lot of guys just
don't believe it...

But if you REALLY LEARN these concepts and
study the materials... and really take the time to
PERFECT your skills with women... you will start
having them chase after YOU.

I know many guys who have so many women calling
them that they literally have to AVOID the calls.

Yes, it is possible, and you can learn how to
do it. Thanks for your email... and thanks to your
buddy who got my program for you. He's a true
friend!


***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

I don't know how I got on your mail list....i am a
female and don't need to know how to attract other
females.... But I do find it interesting the
advice you give guys. How absolutely ludicrously
asinine you are!!!!!!! but I do read it and pass
some of the info onto my single male friends.

i am a reasonably attractive lady who loves men. i
have no problem getting dates or long term
relationships when i want them. but reading your
tombs makes me wonder if any one guy reading them
will ever get lucky.... a female has to be so
stupid or desperate to fall for your tactics. At
least my REAL MEN don't resort to such stupidity
and if they did they would be out of my life
totally.

one guy last week tried such tactics. i said no
thanks and walked out. he is still begging for my
attention and i am not going to give it. but yet
one man which you would call a wussie has slowly
been cultivating me for months. when i finally
decided to go out he was a gentleman and would not
talk to other females or give me the attitude of
being too good for me. i see him about once a
week and i am very comfortable with him I will
be with him tomorrow because he does not play
games.... he talks softly, gently and honestly.
he lets me know i am good and he is lucky to be
with me.... this is all any of us want to hear
whether we are male or female. we all want to be
exalted in the eyes of our dates, the world and
ourselves.

All the advice you give about the man making the
girl feel inferior and tentative is garbage.

i dare you to print this in your newsletter and
respond to it publicly

J m California

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Do you mind if I ask you a personal question?

WHAT KIND OF CRACK ARE YOU SMOKING?

It must be some really good stuff... because
you are out of it.

Let's talk, shall we? One adult to... well, a
crack smoker.

OK, so you call me "ludicrously asinine", and
then in the next sentence say that you pass on
some of the info you learn from me to your male
friends...

Huh?

Next, you start talking about a guy who "tried
such tactics" on you, and you "walked out". You go
on to say that this guy is "still begging for your
attention"... and that you're "not going to give
it".

Look, if any guy was practicing what I teach,
he would NEVER, EVER, EVER BEG ANY WOMAN FOR
ANYTHING... ESPECIALLY ATTENTION.

Tell me the truth: is this guy your crack
dealer? Is that why he knows how to get in touch
with you after you "walked out"?

And I guess you set me straight alright with
your example of the Prince Of Wusses who has been
"cultivating you for months" (sounds like some
kind of fungus experiment to me... try talking to
a specialist about it). He sounds like a real
keeper to me.

Your comment of "All the advice you give about
the man making the girl feel inferior and
tentative is garbage" has convinced me beyond the
shadow of a doubt that you should LAY OFF THE
CRACK, and pay more attention.

I have never, and will never, advise any man to
"make a woman feel inferior and tentative".

You know, I just remembered that I made a new
rule... that if a person demonstrated that they
were a JACKASS within the first three sentences of
their email to me, they could not be considered
for public humiliation in a mailbag like I'm
providing for you... but this was so tempting...
how could a guy help himself this time?


***COMMENT***

Dave, Got the book. Got the DVDs. No longer a
wuss. Nuff said.

Just sharing a quick story. The point is subtle,
but it's made a difference for me more than once:
(over instant messenger) Me: ok, so how am I being
mean again? Her: um, let me think... Her: i dont
know Her: maybe mean isnt the word i am looking
for Her: i think it's more that you do not adore
me as much as others and that annoys me

Translation: Obviously I don't really annoy
her...or she wouldn't be turning down other men
for me (she's an 8.5 looks). I just bust on her
whenever she attempts to make me her Drooling
Subservient Wuss Slave. (Be a man, get a woman.)

I do find it rather ironic that women spend so
much time trying to turn us into wusses they then
don't find attractive. It's not like us men go
around trying to make supermodels eat ice cream
and wear moo-moo dresses...

M Chicago

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Man oh man... you've opened up a can of worms
here.

I'll try to keep this short, but I can already
tell that I'm going to be rambling. Get a drink
for this one. We need to talk.

You have brought up a really important (and
subtle) point about how women behave around men.

When you stop chasing after and kissing up to
women, you will OFTEN hear things like "you're
being mean" and "I'm upset, and I don't know why",
etc.

And when you challenge women on this point,
you'll find the REAL reason: Women get upset when
they don't have CONTROL of a situation.

This is a paradox, as well... because women are
usually feeling ATTRACTED to you at the same time
they're saying these things.

A woman will test and challenge a man over and
over, virtually on a continual basis... just to
see if he's going to "crack" and reveal his Inner
Wuss. This has been going on since the first
human-like woman looked at the first human-like
man and hinted that if he was interested in making
babies that he'd better bring home some meat for
her...

Women aren't TRYING to turn us into Wusses...
on the contrary; they're trying to see if we
actually ARE wusses, and just PRETENDING not to
be.

Get it?

When you realize this SUBTLE distinction, you
are well on your way to learning to use The Force.

By the way, what's wrong with a super model in
a moo-moo eating ice cream?

Just think of it...

No more shopping at Bloomies for Chanel
Hydrabase Lipstick in "Beige Mythique" for
$22.00...

No more "Venti Skinny Two-Pumps-Of-Sugar-Free-
Vanilla Half-Decaf" lattes...

No more "I want a BABY GREEN salad, no
dressing, no croutons, no nothing... and a
chocolate mousse"...

"Moo moos and ice cream" is the way, man.


***QUESTION***

Just recently you had a person write to you about
how long it takes you to make up an email. Well
because you know what you are talking about, the
most of your time is reading the email then
copying it into your "news" letter. I think your
stuff really works if used right. The only thing
that has me confused is why should i buy the e-
book? It seems like you are teaching the whole
thing and their is no need to spend my money. Can
you give me some examples of what i am missing by
not buying your book? I am reading your emails and
wonder what all else could he possibly have to
teach me?

StG, >From some small little town all the way up
in Montana.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, how perfect.

A question I just LOVE to answer...

Imagine this, if you will:

Let's say that a friend of yours told you to
join an online discussion group, because it was
really interesting.

Let's further say that after you joined, you
realized that the topics they were discussing were
all about the Star Wars movie series.

They might be talking about things that Yoda and
Luke said... and having discussions about the
implications of various things... and even adding
new ideas that built on top of the basic
foundation that the actual movies created.

I could TELL you about Star Wars for 100 years.
I could do my best to describe the characters,
what they looked like, how they talked, and on and
on...

But to really "get" Star Wars you need to SEE
IT.

You need to make a decision to invest your
valuable time and money to EXPERIENCE it.

The same goes for my materials.

You are CHEATING yourself if you don't learn
the FOUNDATION... the SOURCE.

Two emails I've received come to mind...

One of them was to thank me for insisting that
guys read my book "Double Your Dating" in addition
to reading these emails, because that made him
actually do it... and he learned the FOUNDATION,
which made these Dating Tips and Mailbags REALLY
make sense.

The other was from a guy who came to one of my
live seminars. He wrote to tell me that when he
came to my live seminar he was expecting me to
just go over the things I covered in my book. But
when he arrived he was shocked to find that it was
almost ALL NEW material... and that the book was
just the beginning. (By the way, that was the
special live seminar I did that was Digitally
audio and video taped and edited to create my
Advanced Dating Techniques Program).

Do I want you to buy my book and other
products?

Of course.

Do I honestly believe beyond the shadow of any
doubt that it's worth 10 times the money, and will
help you become more successful with women and
dating better than anything else in the world?

Yep.

Look, I know this sounds a little crazy, but
I'm so sure that my materials are going to help
you become more successful with women that I'm
willing to let you try them out for FREE.

Yes, I'm talking no money up front. Try it
first. Then decide if it's for you.

Do I get screwed once in awhile, and some guy
orders my program, copies the whole thing, then
sends it back to me the SAME DAY and asks for his
money back?

Sure, of course it happens.

But, my offer is the right thing to do, and I
want to encourage you to invest in yourself... and
I make it so totally risk-free and easy that
you've got to do it.

My eBook and Advanced Series CD/DVD Program
will open your eyes on a whole new level. They
will repay your investment in no time flat... no
question.

You can get the Advanced Series here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

You can download my eBook immediately here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

...both websites have several good free samples
and feedback from others who have them. Enjoy.

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.


P.S. You should also take a few minutes and look
through all of the different programs I've put
together to help you learn how to attract and meet
women. You can see them all, plus watch some great
video clips of each of them right HERE:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog

Key Words Women Say When Attracted

OK, so GET THIS...

I'm reading through some of the bazillion
emails I get every week, and I come across one of
the best emails that I've read in a LONG time.

Are you ready for the interesting part?

It's from a MARRIED GUY.

Yep, you read that right. He's married.

He reads the newsletters and uses the things he
learns to improve his marriage. Go figure.

This guy was able to explain in a few
paragraphs a concept and technique that I
personally use, but have been unable to actually
explain and verbalize well.

I wish I would have written what you're about
to read, but I didn't (but I'm still a cool guy
because I wrote what came before and after it).

Check this out...

***Conversation Technique***

Dave,

I'm still having great success with a rekindled
marriage using you're Tips on my wife. Thanks a
million. Listen, I keep reading over and over in
the MailBags guys wanting to know how to start,
then keep a conversation going with women. I work
for a major oil company and have been through many
of there training courses on dealing with people.
One particularly interesting course was on
"Information Seeking". For this we first practiced
picking up on "Key words or phrases" the subject
said. For instance, I'll try and give an example
using c&f even though you wouldn't use this
professionally on the job. Lets say you see this
great looking chick on the street and you tell
her, "That's an unusual looking dress you're
wearing. Was that made out of a shower curtain?"
She says, "Your mean! No, I bought this from the
Old Navy store." Key Words: Old Navy. "Oh, so
you're in the Navy, huh?" "No silly. You know, the
big store over at the Mall." Key word: Mall. "Oh,
so you like going to the Mall and buying strange
looking dresses do you? Do your girlfriends buy
them also?" "My girlfriends are neat dressers and
my dress is very popular I'll have you know!" Key
phrases: "girlfriends are neat dressers" and
"dress is popular". "Well, if your girlfriends are
neat dressers in a popular dress like you're
wearing then I'm going into the shower curtain
clothing business..." I know, this is a lame
example but the lessons are this.

1) You start a conversation with however you want
then pick out key words or phrases from what the
person says.

2) You repeat them in what you say then listen for
new key words in there next response.

3) You add a little something new into the
conversation REPEATING there words you're using as
Key words or phrases. This tells them you're
listening, even though you're turning things
around to be c/f in this situation.

Once we learned to keep someone talking for 5
minutes, then 15 minutes the company actually
hired total strangers from a job soliciting
company to come and be our subjects. While being
videotaped we had to get the person talking and
keep them talking for 30 minutes. One important
note: If a person brings up something personal or
whatever, they wouldn't have mentioned it if they
didn't want to talk about it. These are great to
Key in on. My subject mentioned she was going
through a divorce and her ex-husband was a total
jerk. I keyed in on this and it's amazing what a
total stranger will tell you once you build a
little rapport. When watching the video you pick
up on mistakes or you see something different you
could have said. You also pick up on Key words and
phases you missed. It just takes a little
practice. This is just one example of how you can
start a conversation and keep it going. Hopefully
it can be of help to you're readers.

JTM Texas

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Awesome.

This is an EXCELLENT description of how to keep
a conversation going, keep it interesting and
unpredictable, and talk about ANYTHING and have it
be fun.

Read it again.

Now, let me sprinkle a little magic dust on
this and tell you how I use this technique
personally.

When I'm having a conversation with a woman,
I'm not just listening for ANY key word... I'm
listening for a particular KIND of key word (or
words).

I'm always on the alert for any words or
phrases that can be twisted, turned around,
misinterpreted, and misconstrued (is that a word?)
in one of a few particular ways...

Namely, in a way that says she's stupid, ditzy,
sexually crazed, or acting suspicious.

For instance, in your example above, you
suggested the following:

"That's an unusual looking dress you're wearing.
Was that made out of a shower curtain?" She says,
"You're mean! No, I bought this from the Old Navy
store." Key Words: Old Navy. "Oh, so you're in the
Navy, huh?" "No silly. You know, the big store
over at the Mall." Key word: Mall. "Oh, so you
like going to the Mall and buying strange looking
dresses do you? Do your girlfriends buy them
also?" "My girlfriends are neat dressers and my
dress is very popular I'll have you know!" Key
phrases: "girlfriends are neat dressers" and
"dress is popular". "Well, if your girlfriends are
neat dressers in a popular dress like you're
wearing then I'm going into the shower curtain
clothing business..."

Good. Nice one.

Now, let's dial it up a little bit...

She says, "No, I bought this from the Old Navy
store..."

Instead of just keying into "Navy" and saying,
"Oh, so you're in the navy, huh?", why not take it
to the next step and actually MAKE FUN of her.

"Oh, so is this what guys used to wear in the
Navy a long time ago... in the OLD Navy?"

Now you're BUSTING on her as well, AND it's
funny.

She says, "No silly. you know, the big store
over at the Mall."

You might try, "What kind of MALL are YOU
shopping at? And do your girlfriends buy dresses
like that one too?"

Again, you're hinting that she has funky taste
and she shops in weird places.

She says, "My girlfriends are neat dressers and
my dress is very popular I'll have you know!"

You could go with, "Oh, you have girlfriends?
You have more than one? Do they all know that you
think of them as a girlfriend? Or is one of them
the special one? By the way, if you have cute
girlfriends, then I think you and I are going to
get along VERY well."

...are you with me here?

What I'm doing is NOT ONLY looking for key
words to latch onto, but I'm ALSO looking for ways
to spin them to make fun, tease, and subtly
suggest various kinds of "racy" topics.

When done in a funny way, it's magic.

My very favorite technique with women is "Cocky
& Funny". If you want to learn to master it, make
sure you go and check THIS out right now:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy

Once upon a time, a guy I know very well went
into a nightclub.

He was talking to a girl at that club for
awhile when she said, "Well, I'm getting tired. I
think it's time for me to go home."

The guy answered "Go HOME?! I just met you. I'm
not going HOME with you!"

She said, "No, I mean I'M going home. I'm
tired."

He shot back, "Maybe you don't hear me. I'm not
going home with you, so don't even ask anymore."

She said, "No, that's not what I'm saying..."

He replied, "And besides, I'm sure my place is
nicer than yours... so if anything, you're coming
home with ME."

This went on and on for about an hour or so.

And you guessed it, she went home with him.

I saw it happen with my own two eyes. Another
off-the-wall (but pretty funny) example of this is
a story that a good friend of mine told me about
one of his friends.

His friend was talking to a girl at a club and
she was talking about what kinds of things she
enjoyed doing in her spare time.

She said, "...I like to go clubbing..."

He came back with, "Oh, like baby seals?"

lol... Now, that might not get a girl to come
home with you, but it's damn funny. Love it.

This technique is GREAT for keeping a
conversation fresh, fun, unpredictable, and FUNNY
(if you know how to do it just right).

Use it.

Right now you're probably thinking to yourself:

"Wow, that's really great. I sure wish there
was a resource available that could show me
hundreds of great ideas like that... so I could
know exactly what to do from when I first meet a
woman to the first date... all the way up until we
get physical and beyond..."

Guess what?

It's right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

...and it's absolutely JAM PACKED with so many
great, interesting, and useful ideas for meeting
and dating more women, you'll be shaking your head
when you're listening to it. Guaranteed.

...and if you haven't downloaded your copy of
my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then maybe I
haven't mentioned it enough times. You can
download it and be reading it in literally MINUTES
from right now. Go get it:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

I'll talk to you again soon!

Your Friend,

David D.


P.S. When you're really ready to take your success
with women to the NEXT level, then take a few
minutes and look through the programs that I've
created to help you learn how to meet women. You
can see all them (including some great video clips
from the different programs) right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog

A "Facial Expression" That Attracts Women

***QUESTION***

Hey David,

I just wanted to tell you that your a really smart
man. Your research has paid off and it is the best
thing that has ever come into my life. At first i
really did not get it but after i read your
newsletters it became crystal clear. I your
techniques on my ex's and my friends and it works
like a charm, my phones have never been so busy
before. Now for my question, in your last news
letter a guy mentioned giving a girl "the wrinkled
eyebrow". What is that and why does it work. Also
im not too good at body language so could you also
address that. Im looking forward to downloading
your ebook and buying your book.

THANKS ALOT FOR YOUR GENEROSITY WITH THIS
INFORMATION

W.C BRONX, N.Y

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You're welcome for the information.

And NICE!

I'm glad to hear that you're practicing on
everyone.

One of the great "extra" benefits that you get
from using the concepts that you're learning here
is that you'll have more FUN in your "regular"
relationships... and in business.

To answer your question about "The Wrinkled
Brow" that was mentioned in a previous
newsletter...

Find a picture of Marlon Brando on the cover of
"A Streetcar Named Desire" or a picture of Colin
Farrell.

Notice the look that these guys have on their
faces.

There's something about this particular look
that says "I'm a man. I'm a BAD BOY. I'm sexy, and
I know it...."

This is a deep topic. And it's something that I
go into detail about in my Advanced Dating
Techniques program.

The long-and-short-of-it is that men can do
things that women find "sexy" and this is one of
them. You don't have to be naturally "handsome"
for women to find you "sexy." Again, this is a
deep topic, but that's the basic idea.


***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave, hey my name is Z and do i have a success
story for you.

I'm a guy who got the girls, but only the ones
that weren't what i wanted, and i could never find
out how to get the ones that i wanted, that was,
until i decided to try your program. i mean i
practiced the "get the e-mail, not the number"
kind of thing for days until this one pool party.
i went up to a girl and started talking to her for
a few minutes, well to make a long story short, I
GOT A PHONE NUMBER AND E_MAIL ADDRESS!!!! and then
another and another tell i finally left with
FOUR!!! thanks a lot! keep sending me info and i
WILL read it!!!

Z

>>>MY COMMENTS:

LOL... yeah, it's fun to learn how to start
meeting and getting emails/numbers from the kinds
of girls that you REALLY want... isn't it?

I can remember back a few years when I would
have thought it would be IMPOSSIBLE to get FOUR
emails and numbers from women in one night.

LOL... now 4 or 5 is just no big deal.

Thanks for the story. It really helps to know
that other guys are out there doing it.


***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

i received many of ur emails, and i'm not a guy,
I'm a lady.

i found a lot of what u wrote is against the
nature of a normal relation between a man and a
woman, and many things that u gave as an advice
would turn any woman off so soon.

for example, i like flowers and i like going out
to nice places and u wrote in ur advices that it
doesn't matter to a woman where do u take her. and
i'm saying it does matter at least in the first
few dates, the reason why is not because i like
him to pay..but cuz a man has to show her that he
would do anything for her, and he loves to please
her ..and that is the most attractive thing to a
woman.it is the normal relation between a man and
a woman.. A man should chase the woman not the
opposite!! And it's definitely against femininity
to chase a man. this is just an example.

bye

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, I'm guessing that English isn't your first
language... at least I hope not.

But what you are saying here is clear.

You're basically saying that a man should
"court" a woman by taking her out to nice places
and paying for everything.

You also say that "a man should chase the
woman" and "a man has to show her that he would do
anything to please her".

Let's talk about these things a little bit...

First off, I get where you're coming from.

I used to act this way myself.

When I met a girl that I liked, I'd call her a
lot, take her to dinner, and chase after her.

What I never could understand is why, when I
acted this way, women tended to RUN AWAY from
me... instead of towards me. They would "play hard
to get", not seem very interested, and often only
liked me as a "friend."

Later, as I began studying guys who were
"naturally" successful with women and dating, I
found something VERY interesting...

I found that most of the guys I met who were
UNUSUALLY successful at attracting women DID NOT
CHASE the women.

In fact, if anything, they were the ones who
were "playing hard to get."

Of course, this confused me at first.

But what I've realized since is that when a man
"courts" a woman, he's hinting that he's
interested in a "long-term relationship"... or
even marriage.

If the woman is also interested in marriage,
what does she usually do?

Right, she turns up the heat, and makes the man
REALLY work hard to "get her."

I mean, how else can she "be sure" that he's
serious?

On the other hand, if a man DOES NOT do all of
these typical "courtship" things, it changes
everything.

It's often confusing to a woman.

And if the woman knows that the man is also
able to attract OTHER women, it creates a
CHALLENGE in her mind.

This is why men who are dating several women
are usually more interesting to women than men who
have no dates.

Is my advice perfect, 100% of the time?

No way.

I teach guys how to be successful in the dating
world, not in the marriage world.

If a guy really likes a woman, and he's
interested in a "long-term relationship", then the
rules change a bit (but not that much).

Most women SAY that they want a man to chase
them. But when it comes to the REAL WORLD, it
usually doesn't play out this way.

If you chase a woman, she will usually run.


***QUESTION***

What's up Dave?

Cocky/funny and the friendship frame work well.
However, I do have one question. In your e-book,
you state that you should always keep your
composure. But you also state, in your bonus book
on the 8 different personality types, that the
"bad boy" personality is the most magnetic to
women; that there's nothing more thrilling than a
"bad boy." And, in almost all cases, "bad boys" do
not keep their composure; they're notorious for
throwing temper tantrums, yet they are still so
attractive to women. What's your take on this?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a FANTASTIC question.

Let's talk about "Bad Boys."

I personally believe that women are ATTRACTED
to "Bad Boys" on a "subconscious" level.

You'll have to get my Advanced Series if you
want a full explanation. It takes hours.

But, the point is that Bad Boys have aspects to
their personalities that women find SEXY.

Unfortunately, Bad Boys are often ABUSIVE as
well.

I don't like abuse, and I don't like to be
abusive.

In fact, I dislike MEAN people and MEAN
BEHAVIOR more than just about anything.

I may bust balls and tease a lot, but
underneath it all I'm always just teasing, or
trying to help.

One of the things that never sat well with me
was the idea that I had to do EVERYTHING that a
Bad Boy does in order to have women dig me.

Well, the good news is that I've realized that
it's very possible (and can be fun) to take some
of the great things that Bad Boys do to attract
women... and learn them...WITHOUT the abuse.

You probably see where I'm going here.

YES, Bad Boys often throw tantrums and "lose
their composure." This is true.

But, I think that throwing tantrums, yelling at
women, and being physically abusive to women are
all horrible.

They're just not good.

On the other hand, keeping your COMPOSURE is
the "right way" to deal with many situations with
women.

When you keep your composure, you actually show
that you're EVEN STRONGER than if you were to get
upset.

I mean, if you WANT to get upset, feel free.

Maybe we'll see you on the next Springer
rerun...

But COMPOSURE is a much better way. Try it,
you'll like it.

By the way, if you want to learn the secret of
keeping your composure AND triggering massive
attraction the way a BAD BOY would, then go and
check THIS out. It's the best way to learn...

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication


***QUESTION***

O Lord Dave,

I bow down to thee and all thy wisdom. Ahhhh man,
you have changed my life. This isn't a success
story about one girl, because I think that that
would be too narrow minded. Instead, I just want
to tell you, and all of your readers how much your
material can change a persons life for the better.
I used to be a "nice guy", and I honestly believed
that I had my personality sorted, and that women
must have been turned off by something else. But
nothing seemed to be working for me. So when I
came across your stuff, I thought, "hey, it can't
hurt, if nothing else is working, then what have I
got to lose". And wow man, you completely blew me
away, Both your e-book and CD series are amazing.
Now I have no problem with women, and I've found
myself becoming far more selective, which brings
me on to my question.

I'm seeing this one lady at the moment, She's not
what you would normally call a hot woman, probably
about 5 on the scale, but out of all the 9's and
10's who I've met, I prefer her company, and I
have more fun with her. I've been using all of
your stuff, and it seems to be working, again. But
now she wants to have a serious talk with me.
We've kinda been more friends who see each other
up till now, and I don't know whether she wants to
just be friends, or more than that. When we meet,
I'm going to say that I don't want a full blown
relationship, but that I still want to be more
than friends. Is this ok, or should I be doing
something else.

Thank you Lord Dave

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, cool it with the "Lord Dave" stuff.

Maybe "Sir Dave", or even "Master Dave"... but
no Lord Dave.

You know, if I may say so myself, you sound
kind of like a CHICK... lol.

You're all freaked because a girl wants to have
a "serious talk" with you, and you don't know if
she just wants to be friends... lol.

Dude, come here so I can he-bitch-man-slap you.

You're saying this whole thing about "I have
more fun with her, even though she's only a 5"
like it's a BAD thing.

Look man, I have some bad news for you...

If you enjoy your time with her, then do what
you want. It doesn't matter if she's a "10." A
woman who you actually enjoy spending time with
is a great thing.

And, why are you asking me if it's OK to tell
her the truth about how you feel?

You're grown up now.

You can do it.

I think you're going to be OK.


***COMMENT***

She'll accept ass-kissing from a guy that she
likes... but only up to a point. Once you cross
the ass-kiss of no return, it's all over. And you
won't even see it coming.

Dave, I have seen your DVDs, bought your material
--I am a huge fan--a NY lawyer turned
musician/mathematician.

This is brilliant advice, and so baldly and well
put. I am in the 6th year of a "long-distance"
relationship-- not until I began to follow some of
your core principals did I start to regain some of
the power in my relationship.

You are totally right--you cannot let down,
because of the 2 trillion times a day these
gorgeous women are approached (my girlfriend and
I were hysterical when on the CD Bigger and
Blacker by Chris Rock about the 'want some d***?'
behind every male micro-move).

And one more thing--the blonde thing. My God. I
always fell for brunettes, very good looking ones
I have gone out with. But going out with a
Princess Di blonde is an experience that verifies
you Dave in the biggest way. They are treated like
absolute royalty/potential sex material
*everywhere they encounter men*--and the blondes
are dumb because they don't even realize how
outrageously 'special' the attention they get is,
and number two, and more along the Dave D. lines,
the men don't realize that when they Offer some
D***, they are one (more of the) million--almost
as bad as Sperm Wars.

Keep up the outstanding work, J NYC

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, thank you...

I think.

You're right. I once met a topless dancer that
told me that when she dyed her hair blonde she
QUADRUPLED the money that she made.

Go figure.

I like brunettes myself.

Whatever.

And, you're also right about the fact that most
men don't even realize that when they come across
one of these women, and offer themselves up, that
it makes them "average" in her eyes, and instantly
uninteresting.

Thanks for the email.


***QUESTION***

David,

I know I've said it before in emails, but thanks
so much for your DVD advanced series. Just the
basics about the psychology and biology of
attraction on the first 2 discs was enough to kick
my confidence into overdrive, and now that I'm
putting the entire program into practice, the
results are astounding and I honestly never
thought my life could be like this. I've gone from
wanting a girlfriend, to specifically NOT wanting
a girlfriend because I'm having way too much fun
with this stuff!

My question is this - now that I can walk into a
bar or other setting and get positive responses
from the ultra-hot, model-type women who I didn't
even bother with only a few months ago because I
assumed they only date millionaires, those are the
only kinds of women I want. Now that I've
experienced them it's hard to go back to the
above-average type women I previously was very
attracted to. (The ironic part is the ultra-hot
women respond even better to your material than
regular women who tend to get insecure over it).
However, would it be a good idea to keep going out
with some "regular" women for practice? They don't
interest me much anymore but I feel like I should
hang out with some to practice my C&F rather than
use the really hot chicks for my "trial and error"
experimentation. Thanks again for all your info -
it's worth a thousand times the price!

FR

>>>MY COMMENTS:

WOW.

You are talking about a HUGE shift here.

Isn't it AMAZING when you go from "wanting and
needing" a girlfriend to NOT wanting one because
life is great without one?

Of course, this usually comes full circle
eventually and makes you want a GREAT girlfriend.

And, of course, when you get to that point
you're usually good enough with women and have
enough options to find a really GREAT one.

LOL... your question is GREAT.

Now that you have the ability to approach the
"ultra-hot" women, should you "practice" on
"regular" women.

You're such a MAN!

LOL...

Sounds like a tough situation you're in.

I'd say this...

Approach all the HOT ones first.

If you run out, then move on to "regular" women
for "practice."

You're cracking me up over here.

I personally practice on just about every woman
I meet.

Trial and error is a natural part of
development. And meeting women is no different.

Just make sure you don't take it personally
when something doesn't work out, or if you make a
mistake.

Remember, over 3,000 women turn 21 in the
U.S.A. ALONE every DAY. If something doesn't work
out with one, there will be another... and
another...

Oh, and you're right... the things I'm teaching
work INCREDIBLY well with "ultra hot" women. In
fact, I have to agree that these concepts work
BEST with women who are unusually attractive.

Thanks for the email.


***SUCCESS STORY***

Dear Dave,

It was roughly a year ago that I purchased your
book and began with the e-mails. I have to say
that I was at one time quite good with women, or
maybe just "lucky." Over time I somehow became
chief of the wusses over several different girls.
I don't even want to verbalize how badly I sucked
at attracting women during those times. I don't
know how it happened, but out of the blue it
seemed I couldn't pull a piece of a@# to save my
life. After a year of CONSTANT practice and
EXTREME de-wussification, I feel that I am on the
long road to recovery.

Last night I experienced the volume knob principle
on a level I've never thought was possible. Over
the course of several hours (six, not counting
sleeping the night in her bed), from the bar, to
the grocery store, to her place, to christening
four different rooms in her house, I found that
everything without a doubt that you have taught in
your book is absolute and complete truth. I was
literally amazed at her reactions and I was able
to calmly predict and calculate my next moves. I
turned her volume knob up so slowly and so subtly,
that she literally had to go outside for fresh air
on two occasions before we could continue. Some
of the best screams and moans I've ever heard. It
was amazing to watch a woman convince herself that
even though we just met that day, that her true
desire was to give herself over to me completely.
Then after satisfying her to a level that I don't
think she has ever experienced (she called the
evening divine), I can now repeat this process
with her or move on to others, and still have her.
Amazing!

One thing that you may find interesting, this
woman is super-feminist all the way. She just
finished a book on "The Power of Women" (her
fourth book). It was great watching her hand it
ALL over to ME in one evening. Thanks Dave, I
can't wait get your Advanced Series.

M, North Carolina

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Very nice!

I get a lot of emails from guys who USED TO BE
good with women, but for some reason have turned
into WUSSBAGS.

It's a sad story, really.

It just goes to show you that even if you KNOW
how to be successful with women, and HAVE BEEN
successful with women, you can still "lose the
touch".

I think a lot of guys who have never had much
success with women have a "secret excuse" for not
being successful.

It's always something.

They assume that some guys just have a special
certain something that women want.

But, the funny thing is that even if you ARE
successful with women, it doesn't guarantee that
you will be in the future. Even if you have that
"certain something", you can lose it by acting
like a Wuss.

Of course, once you "get it", and understand
those little things that are always happening with
women... and learn how to do "illogical" things
that make women feel that amazing emotion called
ATTRACTION... everything changes.

I've personally gone from not being able to
even TALK to a woman I don't know to being able to
approach any woman in any situation and have a
VERY HIGH chance of getting a date with her... and
of course more, if I want.

If you're reading this right now, and saying to
yourself "I would really like to know how he does
that", then I'd like to share the secrets with
you.

And, I'd like to do it at ZERO RISK to you.

I want you to order a copy of my Advanced
Dating Techniques CD/DVD Program.

Go through the WHOLE THING.

TRY some of the things you learn.

I absolutely guarantee that you will start to
see IMMEDIATE results. Women will respond to you
differently because you will see things from a new
perspective.

You'll have a special pair of "3-D" glasses
that most men don't have... and that women LOVE.

Oh, and the best part is that I will send it to
you to check out at MY risk...

It's taken me a long time to figure all of this
stuff out, and it took a big investment in time
and money to make this program. It's the best
there is, and it will give you an advantage that
you will not believe.

You can check it out here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

...and, if you would like to learn the basics
of how to be successful with women and dating, you
need to go download a copy of my online eBook
"Double Your Dating." It, and the three bonus
booklets that come along with it, are a killer
introduction to my concepts and techniques. You
can read about it, plus find some samples
here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.


P.S. Make sure you take a few minutes to look at
all of the different programs I've put together,
and be sure to watch the video clips as well. You
can see them all and get all the details... plus
watch some great free video clips right here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog

Attraction And How It Works With Women

Our topic this week is ATTRACTION.

Before you read further, I'd like you to take a
minute and think about what the word ATTRACTION
means to you.

By the way, I'm talking about the romantic
concept of ATTRACTION... not gravitational
attraction, etc.

If you can, WRITE DOWN exactly what you think
the word ATTRACTION means. The process of writing
down your thoughts helps you to organize them (I
recommend that you also keep a journal of your
experiences as you improve in this area of your
life). There are no right or wrong answers here,
so think about it for a few minutes...

ACTUALLY WRITE YOUR THOUGHTS DOWN.

...

...

...

OK, did you do that? Nice.

So what did you come up with?

A lot of guys seem to think that ATTRACTION is
when one person wants what another person has.

Some think of ATTRACTION as the result of being
good-looking or otherwise "attractive." In fact, I
think a LOT of people confuse ATTRACTION with
"attractive."

When I think of the concept of ATTRACTION, I
think of it primarily as an EMOTION. It seems to
me that it's more a COMBINATION of powerful
emotions that come together to form a very, very
special new SUPER-emotion.

However you think about it, there is a process
that happens that keeps men and women getting
together to have sex...

You are reading this right now, which is a
miracle.

Think of the thousands upon thousands of
generations of ancestors that you have had... and
think about the fact that NOT ONE OF THEM DIED A
VIRGIN.

And not one of them died in childhood.

And then think about the fact that you beat out
about five hundred MILLION other sperm-racers to
get to the egg first.

You are the result of, and represent, probably
the most amazing process I have ever heard of.

One of the parts of this process that
fascinates me is how each pair of your ancestors
decided to get together with THAT PARTICULAR
PERSON at THAT PARTICULAR TIME.

I know that some people will be upset that I'm
talking about this whole concept in such an
analytical, detached way... women in particular
seem to love the fantasy of two people being "soul
mates" and "knowing that your special someone is
out there" and "it just happening."

If you're one of those people, stop reading
now! lol...

After working on this area of my own personal
life for a few years, and trying all kinds of
techniques, it finally dawned on me that
ATTRACTION WAS BASICALLY EVERYTHING.

If a woman feels ATTRACTION for a man, then
nothing else really matters.

Looks, age, nationality, wealth, religion,
personal loss, peer pressure from friends and
family... none of it matters!

On the other hand, if a women DOESN'T feel
ATTRACTION for a man, then nothing else matters in
that case either!

You can't "talk" a woman into feeling
ATTRACTION, any more than you can "talk" a person
who hasn't eaten for three days out of feeling
hungry.

I mean, if you really wanted to be fancy, you
could learn to be a hypnotist and talk them into
it that way...

But I'll tell you a little secret: Even THAT
isn't the best way to do things! (I actually know
several people who use this method of hypnotizing
women... and I haven't met one yet who could use
this technique alone to get women... there's
ALWAYS something else going on.)

What I'm trying to say is that one day it hit
me like a ton of bricks that ATTRACTION IS THE KEY
TO EVERYTHING WITH WOMEN!

If you don't know what it is or how to create
it, you'll wander around trying different
techniques... and probably never land on something
that works consistently.

And once I realized this, all kinds of things
that didn't make sense before INSTANTLY made sense
to me.

All of a sudden I realized why women dated
abusive jerks... ATTRACTION.

I realized why women dated men who were clearly
using them and cheating on them... ATTRACTION.

And I also saw the FLIP SIDE!

I realized why women pass up guys who are
honest, stable, attractive, and wonderful for
losers... ATTRACTION.

Think of ATTRACTION like a drug (which it
really is). If a woman is under the influence of
it, then she's gone. She'll do anything to get
more. One of the things that most fascinates me is
the "language" that triggers attraction inside of
women. I call it "Sexual Communication" and you
can learn all about it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/SexualCommunication

If she's NOT under the influence, then YOU'RE
gone. Nothing you do will matter if she doesn't
feel it.

If you doubt what I'm saying, ask the next 10
SUPER HOT women you see what they think of this.
Read this newsletter to them, and watch their
reactions. You'll see.

OK, now that you've heard a little bit more of
my personal perspective, I'd like you to look back
into your life and think about all those
situations with women that made no sense at all...

Think about the women that you treated
wonderfully that passed you up for the jerks...
and think about all the women "friends" you had...
the ones who told you about how mean and
inconsiderate their boyfriends were... while you
looked at them thinking "I would kill my own
mother for just one date with you."

Is it all making sense now?

THEY DIDN'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU!

YOU WERE BEING A "NICE GUY" AND PROBABLY A
WUSSY BOY, AND YOU HAD NO IDEA THAT IT WAS HAVING
THE EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT OF WHAT YOU WANTED! AND
WORSE YET, THERE WASN'T A DAMN THING YOU COULD DO
ABOUT IT!

It's harsh to think about, but it's true. (By
the way, if you don't do something to learn how to
make women feel ATTRACTION, then most likely, this
is going to keep happening to you for the rest of
your life.)

I have to point out one more thing. As I
mentioned earlier, I think a lot of guys confuse
the idea of being "attractive" with the emotion
called ATTRACTION.

You can make a woman feel an INCREDIBLE
ATTRACTION, even though you're not what most
people would think of as "attractive." Of course,
you have to know how...

The point is that if you're not tall, handsome,
and dashing, you can LEARN how to make women feel
this wonderful emotion called ATTRACTION.

It's a skill. It's taken me YEARS to be able to
even talk about this stuff in simple terms like
this that makes sense, and it's taken me the same
time to figure out how a regular guy like you or I
can make women who we used to think of as "out of
our league," feel ATTRACTION for us.

How, you ask, can we do that?

Well, you've read about the technique called
"Cocky and Funny"... that's a part of it.

But there are several other pieces of the
puzzle, from voice tone and body language, to
specific ways to touch a woman to get her
physically turned on, and everything in between.
It's a system, and it all works together.

There are two KEY aspects of learning how to be
successful with women and dating:

1) The Inner Game

2) The Outer Game

The INNER GAME is all about learning how to
THINK and how to manage your thoughts and
emotions. It's also about understanding how and
why attractive women feel that amazing emotion
called ATTRACTION for some men, and not for MOST
men.

The OUTER GAME is all of the techniques, what
to say and such.

Which is more important?

Well, they're BOTH important.

But what I notice is that most guys want to
learn the OUTER GAME first.

In other words, they want pick-up lines, fancy
tricks, and other things.

I can remember when I first started learning
this stuff.

I had this idea in my mind that if I could
learn how to get women to give me their numbers
that I'd be the MAN.

Well, I learned that I can get just about any
woman's phone number in a few minutes.

But guess what?

Once I learned how to get women's phone
numbers, I ran into a much BIGGER issue... the
women usually flaked out on me, didn't show up,
etc.

And the ones that DID show up were difficult.

Nothing happened.

I realized that there had to be more.

And, as it turns out, there is... A LOT more,
in fact.

The REASON that the "Inner Game" is so
important, is that attractive women don't judge
you on your "pick-up lines."

And just because a woman gives you her phone
number or email address DOES NOT mean that she
FEELS anything inside (like ATTRACTION).

Women don't DECIDE to feel ATTRACTION for a
man.

ATTRACTION is something that happens on its
own, for its own reasons.

Attraction Isn't A Choice!

The way to cause women to feel ATTRACTION for
you is to UNDERSTAND how and why it works, and
then communicate in a way that makes it happen.

In my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD
program, I spend several HOURS teaching "The Inner
Game"... all those things that help you get the
INSIDE together, so you can then get the OUTSIDE
together.

This stuff is CRITICAL to your success.

I wouldn't have taken all the time, effort, and
energy to put this together unless I thought it
was important.

If you want to overcome your challenges and
really take your success to the next level, then
you owe it to yourself to check it out.

It's here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

And if you haven't had a chance to download my
eBook "Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should
Know About How To Be Successful With Women," then
you need to do that now. You can download it and
be reading it within a few minutes...

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook

If you've tried all kinds of techniques, and
nothing seems to "work," then you need to work on
your Inner Game. When you get the inner game
together, everything will start to work a LOT
better...

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.


P.S. If you'd like to see all of the different
programs I've created to help you learn how to
meet women, take a minute and check this out:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog