If you want an in-depth, behind-the-scenes,
fast-track education in female psychology and
sexual attraction...combined with step-by-step
techniques for overcoming fear, approaching women,
setting up dates, and taking things to a physical
level... then check this out:
http://www.DoubleYourDates. com/AdvancedSeries
***QUESTION**
Hey Dave !!
I just wanted to drop you a line to tell you that
your dating material is AMAZING! Your ebook and
your free dating tips are fantastic, and your
advanced dating techniques program is worth more
than gold. I went from being the nerdy wuss bag on
campus that everyone made fun of to the guy dating
the hottest chicks. I feel the power man, Thanks!
Last week, I went up to one of the hottest chicks
on campus who was in the library, a 10 on every
guy's scale, and took her to coffee in less than 5
minutes of conversation (never imagined this was
possible before).
During coffee, I treated her like my bratty little
sister, didn't act interested while at the same
time teased her about her looks and everything,
let's just say that she started getting all touchy
and asking personal question by the end of the
encounter. Now, I see all the guys becoming
jealous from me, and I'm getting increasing amount
of attention from all sorts of girls. Hahaha. I
read your book several times over and I'm applying
all your techniques, needless to say they all work
like a charm.
Finally, I just want your perspective on this
situation. Last night, I approached a hot girl,
about an 8, on campus who's very popular. Let's
just say I was overconfident and lost my frame of
reference and things didn't go to well, in fact I
looked like a loser and I was talking a about a
bunch of bs. Now my concern is she'll probably
tell all her friends, and since I see them
everyday, it's gonna be weird. What can I guy do
in this situation to save his rep? Are there any
rules that need to be followed in a campus
environment ? The good thing however was I didn't
feel rejection, I knew it was my approach and
nothing personal. Thanks for everything.
You Da Man!!
B who needs more practice - T.O
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You've brought up some great points, and an
excellent question, too...
First of all, great job with the first girl.
You didn't let her looks turn you into a wuss, you
busted her balls, and you demonstrated that you
were in control of the situation... and of
yourself.
You took what I teach and APPLIED it, and your
results show that.
Nice.
With the second girl, you did something POWERFUL
that 95% of guys don't do.
When you had a little setback, rather than taking
it personally, you chalked it up to using the
wrong "approach."
Most guys in this situation would have said to
themselves, "See, I knew I was a loser. I just got
lucky with the first girl. I knew this stuff
wouldn't work. Nothing will help me..."
But you didn't.
BRAVO.
Yes, you got overconfident and lost focus.
No biggie.
You know where you made your mistake, and I'm sure
with the next woman you'll do things differently.
Now, as far as the second girl telling her friends
about how you approached her and making it "weird"
for you at school, all I have to say is...
It's all in your head.
Play it off like it was no big deal to YOU, and it
won't be a big deal to THEM.
You can't control what they talk about, and
really, it's none of your business.
The most important thing is to get the lesson, and
that's what you already did.
Forget about worrying what she says to her
friends, or what they think of you.
Remember the idea of "Internal Focus Of Control"
I share in my Advanced Dating Program?
Focus on what YOU can control, not on THEM, and
you'll continue to attract a ton of women... and
high quality ones, too.
You mentioned my Advanced Dating Techniques
Program, and I want to say a little something
about it...
It took me YEARS to figure out and unlock the
"program" women have that tells them who to be
attracted to, and who to be REPELLED by.
For a long time, I was great at hitting a woman's
"don't-date-this-needy-loser- in-a-million-years"
button.
Not good.
So I read every book on the topic that I could
get my hands on... and I went to seminars.
Some things worked... some of the time.
But my results were inconsistent at best.
But then - I had a BREAKTHROUGH.
It happened when I started hanging out with guys
who were MASTERS at meeting women and building
attraction.
What these guys were doing didn't make sense...
but they were always surrounded by beautiful
women.
So I knew that whatever they were doing - no
matter how illogical it seemed to be - WORKED.
I convinced them to share with me how they
approached the whole idea of "women and dating."
They gave me "coaching" on how I was communicating
with women (at the beginning, they gave me a LOT of
coaching. I needed to re-tool everything I was
doing.)
But then things started to click for me.
Situations I would normally blow... like
approaching an attractive woman for the first
time... became situations where I got a number
and a date.
The kinds of girls who I'd NEVER get a second date
with...became girls I'd see over and over again...
and some became long-term girlfriends.
Over the next several years I continued to refine
my approach, journal my learnings, and take my
skills to a level where some of my old coaches
began looking to ME for advice.
That's when I knew it was time to share what I had
learned with the world.
My Advanced Dating Techniques is an important part
of that sharing - and it has some of my best ideas
and tips for meeting and attracting women... fast.
It's the most COMPREHENSIVE program for learning
how to be dangerously successful with women and
dating, period.
If you want an in-depth, behind-the-scenes,
fast-track education in female psychology and
sexual attraction... combined with step-by-step
techniques for overcoming fear, approach women,
setting up dates, and taking things to a physical
level... then you've got to check it out.
And here's a little bonus:
In the program I talk about the best places to
take women on dates... where you can have fun and
not spend a lot of MONEY.
With the economy the way it is, the last thing you
need to do is waste a bunch of your cash on
expensive dates...especially when you don't have
to.
Here's a secret most men will never know:
The amount of money you spend on a date has
NOTHING to do with the level of attraction a
woman feels for you.
Don't get me wrong - if you're a gazillionaire
and you're with a woman who is strictly looking
for a sugar daddy, and you whisk her off on your
private jet to Paris and lavish her with expensive
jewelry... sure, she's going to go out with you
again.
But that's an extreme case.
What's more common is this:
You meet a woman you like, and you feel pressure
to buy her flowers, take her to a nice restaurant,
buy drinks...and you end up spending more money
than you should have.
Worse yet, at the end of the date, you have that
sinking feeling in your stomach that she's just
not into you....
Then you realize:
The money you spent made NO DIFFERENCE.
A much better strategy is to get an education on
what it takes to make a woman feel a gut-level
attraction to you... NO EXPENSIVE DATES REQUIRED.
The money and time you will save on the dates I
recommend in my Advanced Dating Techniques
Program will BY ITSELF pay for this course several
times over - no kidding.
Go here to get more info and watch 14 minutes of
video from the program for free:
http://www.DoubleYourDates. com/AdvancedSeries
Talk soon,
David D.
PS: I recently "re-vamped" the program and added 7
full hours of new content and my newest insights
that WEREN'T on the first edition. Go here and
learn what new tips I added in my special
"Advanced Dating Techniques - 2nd Edition":
http://www.DoubleYourDates. com/AdvancedSeries
fast-track education in female psychology and
sexual attraction...combined with step-by-step
techniques for overcoming fear, approaching women,
setting up dates, and taking things to a physical
level... then check this out:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.
***QUESTION**
Hey Dave !!
I just wanted to drop you a line to tell you that
your dating material is AMAZING! Your ebook and
your free dating tips are fantastic, and your
advanced dating techniques program is worth more
than gold. I went from being the nerdy wuss bag on
campus that everyone made fun of to the guy dating
the hottest chicks. I feel the power man, Thanks!
Last week, I went up to one of the hottest chicks
on campus who was in the library, a 10 on every
guy's scale, and took her to coffee in less than 5
minutes of conversation (never imagined this was
possible before).
During coffee, I treated her like my bratty little
sister, didn't act interested while at the same
time teased her about her looks and everything,
let's just say that she started getting all touchy
and asking personal question by the end of the
encounter. Now, I see all the guys becoming
jealous from me, and I'm getting increasing amount
of attention from all sorts of girls. Hahaha. I
read your book several times over and I'm applying
all your techniques, needless to say they all work
like a charm.
Finally, I just want your perspective on this
situation. Last night, I approached a hot girl,
about an 8, on campus who's very popular. Let's
just say I was overconfident and lost my frame of
reference and things didn't go to well, in fact I
looked like a loser and I was talking a about a
bunch of bs. Now my concern is she'll probably
tell all her friends, and since I see them
everyday, it's gonna be weird. What can I guy do
in this situation to save his rep? Are there any
rules that need to be followed in a campus
environment ? The good thing however was I didn't
feel rejection, I knew it was my approach and
nothing personal. Thanks for everything.
You Da Man!!
B who needs more practice - T.O
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You've brought up some great points, and an
excellent question, too...
First of all, great job with the first girl.
You didn't let her looks turn you into a wuss, you
busted her balls, and you demonstrated that you
were in control of the situation... and of
yourself.
You took what I teach and APPLIED it, and your
results show that.
Nice.
With the second girl, you did something POWERFUL
that 95% of guys don't do.
When you had a little setback, rather than taking
it personally, you chalked it up to using the
wrong "approach."
Most guys in this situation would have said to
themselves, "See, I knew I was a loser. I just got
lucky with the first girl. I knew this stuff
wouldn't work. Nothing will help me..."
But you didn't.
BRAVO.
Yes, you got overconfident and lost focus.
No biggie.
You know where you made your mistake, and I'm sure
with the next woman you'll do things differently.
Now, as far as the second girl telling her friends
about how you approached her and making it "weird"
for you at school, all I have to say is...
It's all in your head.
Play it off like it was no big deal to YOU, and it
won't be a big deal to THEM.
You can't control what they talk about, and
really, it's none of your business.
The most important thing is to get the lesson, and
that's what you already did.
Forget about worrying what she says to her
friends, or what they think of you.
Remember the idea of "Internal Focus Of Control"
I share in my Advanced Dating Program?
Focus on what YOU can control, not on THEM, and
you'll continue to attract a ton of women... and
high quality ones, too.
You mentioned my Advanced Dating Techniques
Program, and I want to say a little something
about it...
It took me YEARS to figure out and unlock the
"program" women have that tells them who to be
attracted to, and who to be REPELLED by.
For a long time, I was great at hitting a woman's
"don't-date-this-needy-loser-
button.
Not good.
So I read every book on the topic that I could
get my hands on... and I went to seminars.
Some things worked... some of the time.
But my results were inconsistent at best.
But then - I had a BREAKTHROUGH.
It happened when I started hanging out with guys
who were MASTERS at meeting women and building
attraction.
What these guys were doing didn't make sense...
but they were always surrounded by beautiful
women.
So I knew that whatever they were doing - no
matter how illogical it seemed to be - WORKED.
I convinced them to share with me how they
approached the whole idea of "women and dating."
They gave me "coaching" on how I was communicating
with women (at the beginning, they gave me a LOT of
coaching. I needed to re-tool everything I was
doing.)
But then things started to click for me.
Situations I would normally blow... like
approaching an attractive woman for the first
time... became situations where I got a number
and a date.
The kinds of girls who I'd NEVER get a second date
with...became girls I'd see over and over again...
and some became long-term girlfriends.
Over the next several years I continued to refine
my approach, journal my learnings, and take my
skills to a level where some of my old coaches
began looking to ME for advice.
That's when I knew it was time to share what I had
learned with the world.
My Advanced Dating Techniques is an important part
of that sharing - and it has some of my best ideas
and tips for meeting and attracting women... fast.
It's the most COMPREHENSIVE program for learning
how to be dangerously successful with women and
dating, period.
If you want an in-depth, behind-the-scenes,
fast-track education in female psychology and
sexual attraction... combined with step-by-step
techniques for overcoming fear, approach women,
setting up dates, and taking things to a physical
level... then you've got to check it out.
And here's a little bonus:
In the program I talk about the best places to
take women on dates... where you can have fun and
not spend a lot of MONEY.
With the economy the way it is, the last thing you
need to do is waste a bunch of your cash on
expensive dates...especially when you don't have
to.
Here's a secret most men will never know:
The amount of money you spend on a date has
NOTHING to do with the level of attraction a
woman feels for you.
Don't get me wrong - if you're a gazillionaire
and you're with a woman who is strictly looking
for a sugar daddy, and you whisk her off on your
private jet to Paris and lavish her with expensive
jewelry... sure, she's going to go out with you
again.
But that's an extreme case.
What's more common is this:
You meet a woman you like, and you feel pressure
to buy her flowers, take her to a nice restaurant,
buy drinks...and you end up spending more money
than you should have.
Worse yet, at the end of the date, you have that
sinking feeling in your stomach that she's just
not into you....
Then you realize:
The money you spent made NO DIFFERENCE.
A much better strategy is to get an education on
what it takes to make a woman feel a gut-level
attraction to you... NO EXPENSIVE DATES REQUIRED.
The money and time you will save on the dates I
recommend in my Advanced Dating Techniques
Program will BY ITSELF pay for this course several
times over - no kidding.
Go here to get more info and watch 14 minutes of
video from the program for free:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.
Talk soon,
David D.
PS: I recently "re-vamped" the program and added 7
full hours of new content and my newest insights
that WEREN'T on the first edition. Go here and
learn what new tips I added in my special
"Advanced Dating Techniques - 2nd Edition":
http://www.DoubleYourDates.
