***COMMENT***
Dear David,
Firstly, I won't massage your ego by waxing
lyrical on your material and have no questions for
you. Just 2 success stories. I am 26 yrs old and
married to a 10 for 2 years. I have read and
reread your newsletters and applied c&f at every
opportunity with her, much to her extreme delight.
She hasn't been able to take her hands off me
since! A story about TESTING. I'm from England
originally and recently went back just for a week
without her (family occasion which they paid for).
2 weeks before I went she gave me extreme abuse
(testing) saying that I should be home with her,
that it was unfair, she wanted to come too etc etc
etc..... usual complete rubbish a chick likes to
give you. Anyway, I did not back down at all, dug
my heels in and told her if she wanted to dump me
over then so be it; plenty of other girls wanting
to get in my pants etc (of course with c&f thrown
in)..... Anyway, she soon got used to the idea and
the week before I went we had wilder sex than ever
before. She was rampant and even got me to take a
morning off work, just so we could have sex. I
told her I'd think about it, but later agreed.
Also, I work an extreme sales job and I recently
got a hot new receptionist/clerk. All I've done
for the last 5 weeks is bust on her about not
being on the phone enough (that's not her job at
all, but I bust her anyway). She'll say "good
morning" as I come in, and I'll say "Never mind
that. How many cold calls have you made today!?",
or I'll just walk over to her phone, blow the dust
of it and use the backhand to brush the cobwebs
away, stuff like that. Gets her giggling like a
schoolgirl. Our interactions have only been like
this, for 5 WEEKS. Anyway... we had a works night
out last week and got talking. All she could say
was how hot my wife is (I told her my wife was a
lucky girl), then told me how handsome I was and
that SHE wanted to be my girl instead, and finally
confessed that she really wanted a THREESOME with
me and my Mrs. And that's all I'll say on this...
All I've done is busted her butt about not making
enough deals and she wants a threesome. Guys.....
single or not, LISTEN TO DAVID!!! Using his stuff
will alter your experience of women forever, and
their experience of you! Nice one Dave! cheers
DVJ
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You know, I'm not sure that I like your idea of
not waxing lyrical on my material, and not
massaging my ego...
Rethink that for next time.
As for your excellent understanding and
application of this material to, a-hem, "improve"
your relationship with your wife, and, a-hem...
your receptionist... nice job.
It really is amazing how TURNED ON women get
when you communicate with them the way you're
describing.
The REAL trick here is actually getting to a
point where you BELIEVE it... so you can start
actually DOING it.
Thanks for the report.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
To start, I just want to say that you are
incredible. I'm not gonna leap up and start
preaching here, I'm no reverend to the Temple of
David, but I will cut straight to the chase. I've
been reading your newsletter for a while and it is
working really well. I've always been c/f, but I
was afraid of offending the woman I set my sights
on. I finally have the confidence to unleash this
beast, problem is, I have the tendency to start
busting on a girl, and when I see it's working...
I blank. A good example two days ago, this FINE
girl walked into my class, having to make up a
math test. This particular teacher, she LOVES to
annoy, so I took good advantage of that. Seeing as
I have established a position of transparent
dominance in that class, speaking out in a lecture
was really no problem. So this girl (who is a
SOLID 10 on my scale) sits down across the room,
which is my favorable flirting distance. I raise
my hand and ask the teacher,
"Is this a permanent arrangement? I don't want HER
in my class" She smiles and winks at me "Gee, I
love you too." Of course I froze, and rather than
saying, "damn right you do," I TURNED AWAY!! Now
to much later, she raises her hand and asks,
"Where do I write my answers?" Instinctively I
turn and say, in a perfect sarcastic tone, "On
your forehead" She laughed and replied with a
flirtatious "shut-up". I FROZE AGAIN!!! I've
tried making conversation in the mall with female
clerks, and I get on a roll. Just as I'm about to
bowl her over with charm, I roll right into the
gutter. Any advice? PM in Anaheim CA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, I have some advice...
Use that GENIOUS MIND of yours to PLAN a few
things to say back to women.
Duh.
Here, I'll get you started with a few ideas...
"You love me."
"This relationship isn't going to work."
"Don't turn into a stalker, OK?"
...there's a list of three to get you going.
The MAGICAL thing about these types of
responses is that they can be used in almost ANY
situation.
Let's say you're teasing a girl, and she's
laughing and hitting you.
You look at her with a serious face and say,
"You love me."
Perfect.
Or you could use one of the other "standards"
I've listed above.
The POINT is that you need to have a few
STANDARD things to say in ANY situation.
Practice the above three until you can USE
them. Then take a few minutes and dedicate that
GENIUS MIND of yours to coming up with a few more.
Next thing you know, you'll actually be saying
something BACK in these situations.
REMEMBER: The point isn't to have something
cute to say to women, the POINT is getting her
email/number, etc. So don't worry about being too
cute. Just worry about getting to the next STEP.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Man, man man! I have got to tell you! I was a
skeptic at first.....really.....I was! Because I
thought that being C&F was somehow trying to be
mean, but it's actually the opposite!
I was at school (well, not really school, but
college) in the student cafe, chilling, and a good
friend of mine (a really attractive girl that I've
had my eye on for a while) sat down next to me.
Her: "hi." Me: "Oh, hi there, (her). So what's
up?" Her: "Well, I just passed that big psychology
test with a 95." Me: *smiles* "Cool. So how do you
think this'll effect your grade?" Her: *laughs*
"Ah, well it probably won't do much." Me: *smiles*
"Nah, it probably won't. It's not like you
actually know the material, everybody knows you
probably cheated. Heh." Her: *laughs* "Hey" Me:
*Mocking her (she has a squeaky voice)* "Hey!"
lol. C'mon now, both you and I know that you know
the back of your eyelids more than you know about
that class. All you do in there is sleep! *I then
lay my head down and start making mock snoring
noises. She loved that! We talked some more and
later, I finally got her phone number and I called
her and we arranged plans for a lunch date. Cool!
The thing is, is that you are actually being NICER
by being C&F because you are giving her what she
wants, and making her feel special around you! NOW
I GET IT! THANKS MAN! YOU DEFINATLY KNOW YOUR
SH**!!
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OH YE OF LITTLE FAITH!
Yeah, you know, that was probably a bad idea to
actually say something INTERESTING AND FUNNY to
her.
When she said "hi" to you, you probably should
have just acted shy and nervous, and hoped that if
you were nice enough over the next 6 months that
maybe she'd notice you and fall in love magically.
You probably should have just told her what a
great job she did on her test, and how maybe she
could help you study sometime (as a subtle and
dumb-ass way to hint that you like her).
You know, you're RIGHT about one thing:
When you're Cocky & Funny (and you're ACTUALLY
funny when you're doing it), you ARE giving women
what they want.
Go figure. You get to actually have fun, not
kiss ass, AND be successful with women.
Thanks for the great story.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I am recently divorced and just getting back in
the game, so your letters are definitely a great
reminded as to what works (and I have read the
ebook). I just had to share an experience with
you.
I'm at dinner with this girl the other night (3rd
date) and she is telling how her best friend's
husband is completely whipped over his wife. To
the point that he won't make a decision or take a
step without her. As she's telling me this I am of
course leaning way back. She obviously wants me to
say something, but I just slightly raise an
eyebrow. Then the kicker, she asks me if I have
ever been whipped on a girl or if I could be. I
gave her the nice, long pause and said what do you
think? She responded with "No Way!" Now this girl
is very intelligent and fairly aggressive, but she
then says that she has to have a guy that is more
aggressive and she can't stand when guys don't
take the lead. I thought this girl might be
reading your emails.
Then later at my apartment as we are all over each
other on the couch, she stops and asks me "what
kind of girl do you respect?" Now that was the
first time a girl asked me that, so I just said
"the kind that is independent and makes her own
decisions." Now I'm not sure if that was the right
thing to say, so about 10 minutes later when I
didn't think things were going much further, I
said "I think we should call it a night". She
quickly asked me if there was going to be a fourth
date? I said, "of course why wouldn't there be".
Then the best happens, she said, "Well, I didn't
think you liked me the first time we went out and
you just have me a little confused." Great stuff.
Then I think I make a mistake. She asks me what my
plans are for the next night and I say I don't
have any. So she asks me to go out the next night
and I say yes even though I would rather hold off
for a couple of days. I have a few questions:
1) What is another way I could respond to the
question of going out the very next night?
2) If I wanted to back out but still keep her
interested, what suggestions do you have?
Thanks,
C Houston
>>>MY COMMENTS:
WOW, you've raised about 147 GREAT points in
your email.
Let's talk about a few of them...
Women who say, "I like a man to be aggressive
and take the lead" aren't reading my emails (well,
maybe they are... lol).
I'm WRITING my emails BECAUSE women like men
who do this.
I'm not inventing the things I teach in my
head, then hoping they work in the real world.
I've been researching, testing, and studying
this stuff for a LONG time now.
For every thing that I teach or suggest, I've
tried at least a HUNDRED others... in other words,
I'm only teaching the best of the best.
When you hear me saying, "Women aren't
attracted to Wussies", it's not just to be cute.
You will RARELY find a statement that is true
more of the time than that one.
And I mean VERY rarely.
Now, when she asked you, "What kind of woman do
you respect?" - you should have said:
"Ones that don't ask a lot of questions"
...or...
"Ones that earn it"
...lol.
Get it?
WHAT ARE YOU DOING answering a question like
that with a normal, serious, BORING answer?
Read my book again.
Be more of a CHALLENGE.
Be mysterious.
And for GOSHSAKES, DON'T BE PREDICTABLE!
Finally, when she asked you what your plans
were for the next night, you should have said:
"My plans are to not be with YOU, YOU BRAT!"
...or...
"That's classified"
...or...
"NO, you CAN NOT take me to Vegas and marry me"
...or any one of 100 ways to both tease her and
put her off the trail of hanging out with you.
You do not need to be deceptive or manipulative
in order to say "I'd prefer to not see you
tomorrow night".
You don't need permission to NOT see a woman.
By rolling over and doing what you did, you put
aside your own desires, and demonstrated that your
INNER WUSSY is actually in charge.
I've threatened the Deuce B. treatment before:
"Don't make me come down there and He-Bitch
Man-Slap you!"
***QUESTION***
Hey Mr.Womanizer
I must say, this is actually the first time I'm
impressed with your email dating tip. You know
why? Because this is the first time your being
fully honest, completely clear and straight
forward. To my knowledge this is the first time
your saying a guy should be MEAN AND JERK to
attract women.
I know exactly what your saying. In another words
your saying "you should be a BADBOY to attract
women".
But you also say women like funny guys (sense of
humor). I don't know any bad boys, mean,
jerks.....who are funny. They are serious types.
I really think you are confusing people because
you said 2 different things.
OR: do you mean a guy should be a BADBOY-JERK as
well as being FUNNY. But BADBOY-JERK can't be
funny.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I think I'm going to have to make a new rule
for sending questions and comments to me:
NEW RULE:
YOU MUST DEMONSTRATE THAT YOU AREN'T A DUMB ASS
WITHIN THE FIRST THREE SENTENCES OF YOUR EMAIL, OR
I WILL NOT EXTEND YOU THE COURTESY OF A RESPONSE.
Of course, you've failed to comply with my new
rule in your email...
But I do have to say, your MIS-interpretation
of my ideas is quite entertaining...
"...a guy should be MEAN AND JERK to attract
women..."
Now THERE'S an idea you should get out and try.
The concept of "Being mean and JERKING".
It just might work for you.
Do yourself and everyone you know a favor, and
learn how to read and comprehend complex concepts
like HUMOR...and FLIRTING.
Until that time, continue to fully expect and
tolerate that curious and persistent dry feeling
you have right at the point where your legs meet.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey Dave,
All I can say is your dating tips really work!!
I am 53 year old man spending a fantastic,
romantic 4-day weekend with a wonderful 39 year
old women that I just meet a few weeks ago.
I am taking a short break from this weekend's
activities to email a few other female friends
that are in their early 40's - all are witty,
smart and attractive.
I was married for a long time and had not dated
for 30 years. Was not sure how to start.
WOW - You have helped me get well on my way.
Best regards to you, J
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, yeah, yeah... you always were a SHOW OFF!
Nice!
You know, one of the things that I love about
this material is that INTELLIGENT guys can "get"
it and start using it almost INSTANTLY.
Once you get it, you REALLY can improve
quickly.
Welcome back, and congrats on the success.
If you're reading this right now, and you'd
like to learn how to get "back into the game"...
or how to get into the game in the FIRST PLACE,
then make sure you go and check this out:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries
***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***
hello!...my name is c!....i signed up for your
newsletter just to see exactly what is going
through men's minds sometimes...i read quite a few
of them and realized you are absolutely right on
target on the way to pick up women and what to say
to them...women love arrogance... but, to my
question....i am normally the outspoken life of
the party...have a bit of an attitude...and don't
have any problem picking men up...but the thing
is...i am the aggressive one...i pursue the prey
with no fear...and many men do approach me but,
they are normally the idiots who never talk to
anyone...they see i am very easy going and easy to
talk to..i talk to EVERYONE...i never get the
arrogant bastards like i want...the guys are
always too SENSITIVE...and overbearing, feely
feely....i had once went out with an arrogant man
as yourself...the techniques you described , i
wouldn't doubt if he had your book...but it kept
me
coming back for more...he knew what to say and
when to say it..ALL THE TIME.......a friend of
mine had actually hooked us up....but..how do i
find them?...how do i get that arrogant bastard to
approach me...and what are the signs to look
for?....i would really appreciate this advice....i
and many of my friend...HELP!
C
>>>MY COMMENTS:
LOL!
Well, I'm not sure that I can help you find an
"arrogant bastard", but you did say something that
I'd like to comment on...
You said that "...guys are always too
SENSITIVE... and overbearing, feely feely..."
TRANSLATION: Guys act like WUSSIES!
Now, the funny thing is, I KNOW what kind of
woman you are. You're FUNNY, INTERESTING, AND
CHARISMATIC.
I'm sure of it. Guaranteed.
You're the kind of woman that men DREAM ABOUT.
You probably enjoy life, have fun whatever
you're doing, know what you want... etc. You're
probably successful in your line of work, have a
life of your own... and on and on.
You're also the kind of woman that most men
have NO idea how to deal with.
Most guys will turn you OFF within 3 seconds of
the introduction, because they'll start acting all
nice, polite, and sweet.
BORING.
I'm not sure that I can help you in your quest
for an "arrogant bastard", but I'll feel free to
use your email to demonstrate that women like
yourself are NOT interested in men who are "feely
feely".
***SUCCESS STORY***
A friend got me your books as a birthday present,
being that before then I was pretty pathetic with
the ladies, Being a wrestler made it all the more
of an insult. When I did get a relationship, it
would never last more than a week, and nothing
would come out of it. Well, after reading your
stuff I realized how much of a wuss I was. I did
almost every wuss thing in the book, not to
mention just having a severe lack of confidence...
Just to see what works, I went on one of those
picture rating sites. I'll tell ya, of 3 pictures
I ranked from 6.5 to 9.5. The 6.5 one being me as
a well groomed nice guy with a smile and the 9.5
as me a year later in a cast with a "pissed off
drug dealer" look (I'd been missing a season or
wrestling, it was only fitting). I realized the
nice guy look wasn't working. I also met about a
dozen girls on that system and just practiced the
c&f on them. I was the one calling the shots,
dropping the boring ones and sticking to the
interesting ones, instead of them choosing
whether I was worthy... The funny part was, they
each started telling me how infatuated they were
with me, and telling me about dozens of guys who
piss them off, where each of those guys were doing
things I used to do by nature... Well, after I
realized that I actually did have it in me, I
brought it all together and started using it on
girls back at college. I'm currently going out
with one of the most beautiful in my college, and
it's you I have to thank for it.
JW, Pennsylvania
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, nice.
You have really spelled it out.
A lot of young, hot women say that men are
"annoying".
What they REALLY mean is that men are BORING
and that they feel no ATTRACTION for them.
As strange as the truth is, ATTRACTION is NOT
triggered by being a "nice" guy.
Nice will never do it.
Of course, as you know, I never suggest that
men act in an ABUSIVE way...
But if you want to get out of the "annoying"
category, you MUST start BEHAVING AND
COMMUNICATING DIFFERENTLY.
PREDICTABILITY is ANNOYING to women.
Being CLINGY is ANNOYING to women.
Acting like a WUSSY is ANNOYING to women.
Congratulations, and thank you for taking the
time to write in and share your success story.
***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***
David,
Can you give some advice to women? I know your e-
mail is just for men but I REALLY need some help.
I've tried to get this guy and I think I need a
change in my attitude towards him. He's hard to
get because he follows this pattern: he calls, he
seems very interested but a few days or a week
later he will change his mind and ignore me (he's
done the same with 2 other girls) or he'll date me
for a while then ignore me then come back a few
months later. This last time he tried coming back
to me while dating another girl still and it
seemed that it was only for sex. I flat out
refused.
Here is what I've tried: If I straight out refuse
him and tell him what I think, he backs off
completely. If I try to be nice and forgiving,
he'll take it and follow the same pattern.
I need a different attitude for when he'll come
back next time (not so serious and not so nice
either)- something that will surprise him. Any
suggestions?
Thanks
AC, San Diego
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, you're not exactly going to like this,
but I'm about to take your email and use it for my
own selfish purposes...
Here's what I heard you say:
"Dear David,
I can't explain it, but for some reason I'm
ATTRACTED to men who are unpredictable, untamed,
successful with other women, and probably BAD FOR
ME."
The thing that REALLY strikes me about your
letter is that you're basically asking me how to
get a guy who probably ISN'T good for you.
Now, why would you go to all the trouble to
think about this, write me an email, etc.?
IT'S BECAUSE YOU CAN'T STOP YOUR ATTRACTION.
You probably KNOW that this guy isn't going to
stay around, no matter WHAT you do...
But you still want him!
Advice to you: Find a different guy.
Advice to guys: Learn from this example.
***QUESTION***
David
First of all your stuff works great. I'm 31 years
old-- been rich, been poor and rich again. I've
been addicted to personal development my whole
life. I even was a top trainer for motivational
guru Tony Robbins and currently run my own seminar
company. Yet your stuff has opened my eyes, not
only does it work with babes (I have an 19 year
old hot Latin.. who's all over me.. and her
friends are hitting on me all the time--enough
said.)
This stuff works great in all areas of life. I
using it in business with great results
I have a question though.
I've been with this girl about 11 months know and
I'm all-ways busting on her..c/f stuff. I love it
and am natural at it. Even start blow-out fights
so we can have make up latter. Interesting
note..the more I do that the more attracted she
becomes. Go figure.
My question is.. Do you recommend doing less C/F
stuff when you've been going out for awhile or do
you pore it on even more?
I'm Sure I know what you'll say, but I want to
make Sure.
Got to run.. Look forward to getting your adv.
stuff
Thanks again, EL- New Jersey
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, first off, I don't recommend STARTING
FIGHTS just so you can make up later.
I don't think that it's necessary to actually
START serious conflicts with women.
While it DOES work in many cases to intensify a
sexual attraction, it doesn't lead to long term
good health.
As for your question about doing more or less
of the Cocky & Funny with a girl that you've been
dating for awhile...
You need to keep doing what WORKS in your life.
Too many men make the mistake of STOPPING the
things that are working.
There is another, less common mistake that some
men make which is to increase the amount of Cocky
& Funny to the point where it becomes predictable,
boring, and annoying.
Once you become comfortable using the material,
you will have a "feel" for it.
Do what works, and stop doing what doesn't.
Every situation is slightly different, and
you're at the point where no "formula" will fit
your situation exactly.
And as for you and your 19 year old hot Latin
girl...
You suck, and no men like you.
***QUESTION***
Yo man!
All You write in your newsletters does make sense,
BUT when do You have time to date/f*** all these
babes if You write such a long newsletters 3 times
a week. I doubt You are so journalistically gifted
to do it just like that.
Correct me if I'm wrong. M Katowice, Poland
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Consider yourself corrected... I write all of
the newsletters, and I have a life.
Seriously, these newsletters DO take me a lot
of time to create...
I've considered having friends and other
contributors "guest write" a few (and I may do
that in the near future), but up until now, I've
written every one myself, by hand.
My goal is to have the VERY BEST free
newsletter that is or has EVER been offered by
anyone, anywhere, on ANY topic.
This is how I communicate with my readers and
family of customers, and it's important.
I estimate that I spend about 12-15 hours every
week actually writing the newsletters, and another
who-knows-how-many hours thinking about, preparing
for, and planning them.
There are times, of course when I work so much
on this stuff that I neglect my social life... I
really do love what I do.
But hey, if I had no time for a personal life,
what fun would THAT be?
No dates makes David D. a dull writer...
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave, I thank God every day for magically making
your emails appear in my mailbox. I don't know
how I started getting them, but the timing
couldn't have been better. I recently became
single. I have always been a wussy doormat.
Fortunately, your emails came along, I downloaded
your e-book, and I took a real hard look at myself
and what has happened to me over the years.
Here is what I found. Every time I tried to keep a
girl at a distance because I already had a
girlfriend or it was a girl I worked with, I would
try to bust on her and scare her away. Guess
what? They loved me more. I also realized that I
loved flirting with old women or my girlfriend's
moms. There was never a chance that I would
really want to hook up with them, so I was C&F and
didn't really care. They thought it was so funny
and cute. Guess what? These older women loved me
too. I have always had better relationships with
my girlfriend's mom than I did with my girlfriend.
In fact, some moms couldn't believe that their
daughter was stupid enough to break up with me.
THE LIGHT WENT ON! I had been practicing all
along on women I wasn't interested in, and the
results were blatantly obvious. I immediately had
a surge of confidence and started playing the C&F
on EVERYONE. I went from buying drinks for
everyone to not buying any drinks (including my
own). How dare someone think that they can talk
to me with out first buying me a drink?
Guys, this stuff works on everyone, and you can
practice it on anyone. Trust me, you will quickly
gain confidence and make it a habit. Then, when
you are out trolling for trim, you will be a
natural.
GOD BLESS DAVE,
M.L. Northern California
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, this is great insight...
Often the women you DON'T want are the ones
that pursue you, while the ones that you are
interested in run away because you're pursuing
THEM.
You must translate this "comfort" to your
interactions with the women you ARE interested in,
and communicate in the same way...
By the way, in your email you said:
"I have always had better relationships with my
girlfriend's mom than I did with my girlfriend..."
Dude, that's not right. Be cool.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey Dave,
A success story from S in Mass...I've been
receiving your newsletters for awhile now and
found them to be full of info. I answered this
woman's personal ad recently, she's 34, I'm 32...I
started using the C&F techniques over the phone,
then got her e-mail address, continued with the
C&F, and sent her my pic...She liked the pic and
all of the other C&F comments I made... like
telling her that I would have to meet her in
person to make sure that she wasn't a man since
she had no pic...Well I met her one night at a
donut shop and we chatted for a bit...To be
different from other guys she's gone out with, I
showed her some card tricks that I've been
doing...They're a real ice breaker and they seemed
to put her more at ease as she had said she was a
little nervous about meeting me..We had plenty to
talk about and she liked the card tricks and
couldn't figure them out...She had told me on the
phone that she was a former stripper at a local
club..She was pretty with a nice body to boot...I
was surprised when she only considered herself a 7
or 8! After the donut shop, we went to get a drink
at a bar and left when it closed....I took her to
her place after that, and I'm not sure what it
was, the C&F, the alcohol, maybe both, but she
couldn't get enough of me....We must have made out
for about 2 hours that night...she asked when she
would see me again..she e-mails me constantly and
even asked if we were an item...and this is only
after one date...I'm looking forward to seeing her
again and a note to all of you who aren't using
C&F, C&F is the bible of getting the hot girls!
***I think she may have read one of your
newsletters before, as we were kissing, she pulled
back a couple times as to tease me,,, she stole
the move I was gonna use on her!***
Hats off to u, Dave Keep the newsletters coming! S
in Mass
>>>MY COMMENTS:
LOL!
You don't realize what a MIRACLE your letter
actually is...
I don't remember recommending that you meet
women in a DONUT SHOP and do CARD TRICKS for them
for a first meeting.
Creative? Yes.
Original? Yes.
Dorky like you read about? Yes.
But hey, if it works for you, then keep it up!
Thank your lucky stars that you were keeping up
the teasing and the Cocky & Funny. You must have
distracted her enough to make her not notice...
lol.
Thanks for the email.
***QUESTION***
Hi David,
Thanks for all you've written. Your writing is
inspired and your wit is great. As a 51 year old
man, my success with your program has easily gone
from 20% to about 85%. I generally use email and
create a non threatening relationship through
emails, including humor, and romantic discussions.
I avoid sex talk, but when I the woman brings it
up, which they always do, I ask them "Are you
trying to seduce me?" Invariably the women wants
to make the next move... It's amazing! There is a
subject however, that you haven't covered.... How
to avoid the broken hearted woman? Your
techniques are so successful, and the women get so
attached to me that I can't get rid of them. It is
a difficult situation. Since I'm certain that this
must happen to you often, I'm wondering how you
deal with the woman who becomes attached to you
like Velcro. I really think it might be
worthwhile for you to write a topic on it. Again,
thanks for your marvelous techniques. With
Kindest Regards, R.D.. Massachusetts.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ohhhh, I see.
So if I write a book and teach you how to get
rich you're going to email me and tell me that
you're having trouble spending all the money, and
your tax bill is too large?
The answer you're looking for is simple:
If you don't want a woman to get attached to
you in the FIRST PLACE, don't talk her more than a
couple of times a week, or see her more than every
week or so.
That's the answer you're looking for.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
First off, your eBook is awesome. I've practiced
c&f on almost every girl I know, both friends and
girls I've dated. It's amazing how much it works
on such a majority of women! Every girl I've used
it on has been unbelievably receptive and cannot
get enough of me. Consequently, my confidence is
boosted. It's one of the best chain-reactions in
the world. Here's some proof:
There's this girl I met (before getting your
eBook), and I got her e-mail address through a
friend. I immediately sent her a message telling
her how beautiful she was, how I've heard good
things about her... you know, WUSS behavior.
Anyway, we started talking on an instant messenger
for a while, and things were going NOWHERE...
until I read a few of your mailbags and got the
eBook that is. This is when I tried c&f and
INSTANTLY turned the tables around. Now she keeps
sending me pictures of her, keeps telling me that
she's never met anyone like me, and actually BEGS
me to get online whenever I can! Remember, this
girl is beautiful... and I rip on her every chance
I get!!! I even catch myself being mean sometimes
when she acts like she's better than everyone, but
she still eats it up. I know that your advice
never includes being mean or hurtful, but I have
learned that getting mad at a girl for dumb things
she does sometimes makes her realize that you're
not another doormat, and that you won't put up
with her bullsh** just for the sake of her
attention. Anyway, there was a question to this
whole thing:
A few years ago, I started dating an 9.5 girl with
a 10 personality. No joke, this girl was smart,
funny, and beautiful. We dated for a little
while, but she ended up moving to another town
with her family. Needless to say, we didn't see
each other anymore. The only contact we had was
an e-mail here and there. Fast forward to 4 years
later, and I move to the same town after finishing
college. I ran into her at a restaurant where she
was a waitress, and she was totally surprised and
glad to see me. I kept my cool, didn't act like
I've missed her, but was still upbeat and funny in
the little time we had to talk. A couple weeks
after I saw her, she e-mails me and tells me that
she wants to hang out. She also said she's seeing
someone, even though he's gone for a few months,
and that she just "wants to talk."
So what do I do here, man? I want to see her, but
as more than friends. I'll obviously keep on doing
what has given me such great success recently,
(c&f, indifference, independence) but I need a
little more advice on the rare "second chance
girl." Should I bail? just be friends? or try for
more using your techniques? Of course I want the
girl that seems impossible to have, but she's
worth it. Any advice would help a lot, really.
Thanks again, you've given a lot of guys a second
chance at more than just women.
RM, Denver
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, I think you should stop letting your
INNER WUSS run free on this one.
Stop it!
Stop being ATTACHED to the situation.
Relax.
If you want to spend time with her, do it.
You have NO IDEA what's REALLY going through
her mind.
She might be seeing a guy casually... he might
not even be a boyfriend.
Or she might be just about to break up with
him.
Or she might be almost engaged to him.
Who knows...
But what I DO know is that you need to chill
out.
If you want to see her, go have tea for an
hour.
Have fun, and don't act like a WUSS around her.
You need to stop treating this like it's going
to make or break your personal happiness.
Think about it for a minute. This girl could
have changed over the last four years, and might
be someone that you don't actually want to be
with.
The point is that you need to CHILL.
Making a woman this important this soon is not
a good idea, and it will probably cause you to do
something stupid.
You're doing fine, now keep it up!
***COMMENT***
David,
I've been getting your newsletter for about a
month now and finally got your book today. I was
a little hesitant at first, but after about 10
pages, like everything else I've seen, I was
hooked. You seem to say and spell out the things
that we all see but can't get quite right in our
heads and I wanted to thank you for it. I have a
cousin who would be one of the 5 people I
definitely need to start hanging around and make
that push to get rid of the wuss that is dying as
I type, and the more I think about why he succeeds
so well, the more your book is proven in my mind.
Everything that I always used to watch in
admiration, I am starting to see myself doing, and
hopefully with some practice, I'll have something
for you to send out to the others who are on their
way to becoming men. Your book is awesome, and
once I get the basics down them I'm sure the
advanced series will kick ass too. I just wanted
to say thanks real quick for all you've done,
congratulations on finding a way to put it in
words, and thanks for giving that first step
towards something new to another dedicated
follower. Time to read again, learn, focus, and
make us both proud.
N from Washington State University
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, you're welcome.
Isn't it great when things that used to make no
sense at all finally begin to come together right
in front of your eyes?
Sometimes just looking at something in a new
way will do that for you.
One of the things my programs do is give you a
BEHIND-THE-SCENES look at how the "naturals" work,
and why they succeed with women.
I like to think of it as going into high school
algebra class, but instead of being handed the
normal textbook, you're getting the TEACHER'S
EDITION with all the answers.
It's like putting on the 3-D glasses when
you're watching a 3-D movie.
All of a sudden, things that never made any
sense before (and things that looked like "magic")
all come together...and you get those "AH HA!"
moments.
It is TRULY AMAZING when you can actually begin
to understand what makes male/female ATTRACTION
happen, and then you can start to REALLY see why
some guys who aren't particularly good looking,
rich, or young wind up with all the women.
...if you're reading this right now and you'd
like to be one of the few men who have the ability
to meet women anywhere, anytime, in any situation,
then I recommend you check out some of my stuff...
You can download my online eBook "Double Your
Dating" right now and be reading it within a few
minutes. It's here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/eBook
My fantastic program "Cocky Comedy" will give
you an in-depth education on the topic of "Cocky &
Funny". It's the powerful communication technique
that instantly sparks and builds attraction, and
I'm the only one who teaches it.
Go watch all the video previews right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/CockyComedy
This program is the latest and greatest from
me, and I guarantee that it will take your success
with women to the next level.
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. Make sure you take a minute and look through
all of the other programs I've created to help you
learn how to attract women. You can see them all,
watch video clips, and get details HERE:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog
Dear David,
Firstly, I won't massage your ego by waxing
lyrical on your material and have no questions for
you. Just 2 success stories. I am 26 yrs old and
married to a 10 for 2 years. I have read and
reread your newsletters and applied c&f at every
opportunity with her, much to her extreme delight.
She hasn't been able to take her hands off me
since! A story about TESTING. I'm from England
originally and recently went back just for a week
without her (family occasion which they paid for).
2 weeks before I went she gave me extreme abuse
(testing) saying that I should be home with her,
that it was unfair, she wanted to come too etc etc
etc..... usual complete rubbish a chick likes to
give you. Anyway, I did not back down at all, dug
my heels in and told her if she wanted to dump me
over then so be it; plenty of other girls wanting
to get in my pants etc (of course with c&f thrown
in)..... Anyway, she soon got used to the idea and
the week before I went we had wilder sex than ever
before. She was rampant and even got me to take a
morning off work, just so we could have sex. I
told her I'd think about it, but later agreed.
Also, I work an extreme sales job and I recently
got a hot new receptionist/clerk. All I've done
for the last 5 weeks is bust on her about not
being on the phone enough (that's not her job at
all, but I bust her anyway). She'll say "good
morning" as I come in, and I'll say "Never mind
that. How many cold calls have you made today!?",
or I'll just walk over to her phone, blow the dust
of it and use the backhand to brush the cobwebs
away, stuff like that. Gets her giggling like a
schoolgirl. Our interactions have only been like
this, for 5 WEEKS. Anyway... we had a works night
out last week and got talking. All she could say
was how hot my wife is (I told her my wife was a
lucky girl), then told me how handsome I was and
that SHE wanted to be my girl instead, and finally
confessed that she really wanted a THREESOME with
me and my Mrs. And that's all I'll say on this...
All I've done is busted her butt about not making
enough deals and she wants a threesome. Guys.....
single or not, LISTEN TO DAVID!!! Using his stuff
will alter your experience of women forever, and
their experience of you! Nice one Dave! cheers
DVJ
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You know, I'm not sure that I like your idea of
not waxing lyrical on my material, and not
massaging my ego...
Rethink that for next time.
As for your excellent understanding and
application of this material to, a-hem, "improve"
your relationship with your wife, and, a-hem...
your receptionist... nice job.
It really is amazing how TURNED ON women get
when you communicate with them the way you're
describing.
The REAL trick here is actually getting to a
point where you BELIEVE it... so you can start
actually DOING it.
Thanks for the report.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
To start, I just want to say that you are
incredible. I'm not gonna leap up and start
preaching here, I'm no reverend to the Temple of
David, but I will cut straight to the chase. I've
been reading your newsletter for a while and it is
working really well. I've always been c/f, but I
was afraid of offending the woman I set my sights
on. I finally have the confidence to unleash this
beast, problem is, I have the tendency to start
busting on a girl, and when I see it's working...
I blank. A good example two days ago, this FINE
girl walked into my class, having to make up a
math test. This particular teacher, she LOVES to
annoy, so I took good advantage of that. Seeing as
I have established a position of transparent
dominance in that class, speaking out in a lecture
was really no problem. So this girl (who is a
SOLID 10 on my scale) sits down across the room,
which is my favorable flirting distance. I raise
my hand and ask the teacher,
"Is this a permanent arrangement? I don't want HER
in my class" She smiles and winks at me "Gee, I
love you too." Of course I froze, and rather than
saying, "damn right you do," I TURNED AWAY!! Now
to much later, she raises her hand and asks,
"Where do I write my answers?" Instinctively I
turn and say, in a perfect sarcastic tone, "On
your forehead" She laughed and replied with a
flirtatious "shut-up". I FROZE AGAIN!!! I've
tried making conversation in the mall with female
clerks, and I get on a roll. Just as I'm about to
bowl her over with charm, I roll right into the
gutter. Any advice? PM in Anaheim CA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, I have some advice...
Use that GENIOUS MIND of yours to PLAN a few
things to say back to women.
Duh.
Here, I'll get you started with a few ideas...
"You love me."
"This relationship isn't going to work."
"Don't turn into a stalker, OK?"
...there's a list of three to get you going.
The MAGICAL thing about these types of
responses is that they can be used in almost ANY
situation.
Let's say you're teasing a girl, and she's
laughing and hitting you.
You look at her with a serious face and say,
"You love me."
Perfect.
Or you could use one of the other "standards"
I've listed above.
The POINT is that you need to have a few
STANDARD things to say in ANY situation.
Practice the above three until you can USE
them. Then take a few minutes and dedicate that
GENIUS MIND of yours to coming up with a few more.
Next thing you know, you'll actually be saying
something BACK in these situations.
REMEMBER: The point isn't to have something
cute to say to women, the POINT is getting her
email/number, etc. So don't worry about being too
cute. Just worry about getting to the next STEP.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Man, man man! I have got to tell you! I was a
skeptic at first.....really.....I was! Because I
thought that being C&F was somehow trying to be
mean, but it's actually the opposite!
I was at school (well, not really school, but
college) in the student cafe, chilling, and a good
friend of mine (a really attractive girl that I've
had my eye on for a while) sat down next to me.
Her: "hi." Me: "Oh, hi there, (her). So what's
up?" Her: "Well, I just passed that big psychology
test with a 95." Me: *smiles* "Cool. So how do you
think this'll effect your grade?" Her: *laughs*
"Ah, well it probably won't do much." Me: *smiles*
"Nah, it probably won't. It's not like you
actually know the material, everybody knows you
probably cheated. Heh." Her: *laughs* "Hey" Me:
*Mocking her (she has a squeaky voice)* "Hey!"
lol. C'mon now, both you and I know that you know
the back of your eyelids more than you know about
that class. All you do in there is sleep! *I then
lay my head down and start making mock snoring
noises. She loved that! We talked some more and
later, I finally got her phone number and I called
her and we arranged plans for a lunch date. Cool!
The thing is, is that you are actually being NICER
by being C&F because you are giving her what she
wants, and making her feel special around you! NOW
I GET IT! THANKS MAN! YOU DEFINATLY KNOW YOUR
SH**!!
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OH YE OF LITTLE FAITH!
Yeah, you know, that was probably a bad idea to
actually say something INTERESTING AND FUNNY to
her.
When she said "hi" to you, you probably should
have just acted shy and nervous, and hoped that if
you were nice enough over the next 6 months that
maybe she'd notice you and fall in love magically.
You probably should have just told her what a
great job she did on her test, and how maybe she
could help you study sometime (as a subtle and
dumb-ass way to hint that you like her).
You know, you're RIGHT about one thing:
When you're Cocky & Funny (and you're ACTUALLY
funny when you're doing it), you ARE giving women
what they want.
Go figure. You get to actually have fun, not
kiss ass, AND be successful with women.
Thanks for the great story.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I am recently divorced and just getting back in
the game, so your letters are definitely a great
reminded as to what works (and I have read the
ebook). I just had to share an experience with
you.
I'm at dinner with this girl the other night (3rd
date) and she is telling how her best friend's
husband is completely whipped over his wife. To
the point that he won't make a decision or take a
step without her. As she's telling me this I am of
course leaning way back. She obviously wants me to
say something, but I just slightly raise an
eyebrow. Then the kicker, she asks me if I have
ever been whipped on a girl or if I could be. I
gave her the nice, long pause and said what do you
think? She responded with "No Way!" Now this girl
is very intelligent and fairly aggressive, but she
then says that she has to have a guy that is more
aggressive and she can't stand when guys don't
take the lead. I thought this girl might be
reading your emails.
Then later at my apartment as we are all over each
other on the couch, she stops and asks me "what
kind of girl do you respect?" Now that was the
first time a girl asked me that, so I just said
"the kind that is independent and makes her own
decisions." Now I'm not sure if that was the right
thing to say, so about 10 minutes later when I
didn't think things were going much further, I
said "I think we should call it a night". She
quickly asked me if there was going to be a fourth
date? I said, "of course why wouldn't there be".
Then the best happens, she said, "Well, I didn't
think you liked me the first time we went out and
you just have me a little confused." Great stuff.
Then I think I make a mistake. She asks me what my
plans are for the next night and I say I don't
have any. So she asks me to go out the next night
and I say yes even though I would rather hold off
for a couple of days. I have a few questions:
1) What is another way I could respond to the
question of going out the very next night?
2) If I wanted to back out but still keep her
interested, what suggestions do you have?
Thanks,
C Houston
>>>MY COMMENTS:
WOW, you've raised about 147 GREAT points in
your email.
Let's talk about a few of them...
Women who say, "I like a man to be aggressive
and take the lead" aren't reading my emails (well,
maybe they are... lol).
I'm WRITING my emails BECAUSE women like men
who do this.
I'm not inventing the things I teach in my
head, then hoping they work in the real world.
I've been researching, testing, and studying
this stuff for a LONG time now.
For every thing that I teach or suggest, I've
tried at least a HUNDRED others... in other words,
I'm only teaching the best of the best.
When you hear me saying, "Women aren't
attracted to Wussies", it's not just to be cute.
You will RARELY find a statement that is true
more of the time than that one.
And I mean VERY rarely.
Now, when she asked you, "What kind of woman do
you respect?" - you should have said:
"Ones that don't ask a lot of questions"
...or...
"Ones that earn it"
...lol.
Get it?
WHAT ARE YOU DOING answering a question like
that with a normal, serious, BORING answer?
Read my book again.
Be more of a CHALLENGE.
Be mysterious.
And for GOSHSAKES, DON'T BE PREDICTABLE!
Finally, when she asked you what your plans
were for the next night, you should have said:
"My plans are to not be with YOU, YOU BRAT!"
...or...
"That's classified"
...or...
"NO, you CAN NOT take me to Vegas and marry me"
...or any one of 100 ways to both tease her and
put her off the trail of hanging out with you.
You do not need to be deceptive or manipulative
in order to say "I'd prefer to not see you
tomorrow night".
You don't need permission to NOT see a woman.
By rolling over and doing what you did, you put
aside your own desires, and demonstrated that your
INNER WUSSY is actually in charge.
I've threatened the Deuce B. treatment before:
"Don't make me come down there and He-Bitch
Man-Slap you!"
***QUESTION***
Hey Mr.Womanizer
I must say, this is actually the first time I'm
impressed with your email dating tip. You know
why? Because this is the first time your being
fully honest, completely clear and straight
forward. To my knowledge this is the first time
your saying a guy should be MEAN AND JERK to
attract women.
I know exactly what your saying. In another words
your saying "you should be a BADBOY to attract
women".
But you also say women like funny guys (sense of
humor). I don't know any bad boys, mean,
jerks.....who are funny. They are serious types.
I really think you are confusing people because
you said 2 different things.
OR: do you mean a guy should be a BADBOY-JERK as
well as being FUNNY. But BADBOY-JERK can't be
funny.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I think I'm going to have to make a new rule
for sending questions and comments to me:
NEW RULE:
YOU MUST DEMONSTRATE THAT YOU AREN'T A DUMB ASS
WITHIN THE FIRST THREE SENTENCES OF YOUR EMAIL, OR
I WILL NOT EXTEND YOU THE COURTESY OF A RESPONSE.
Of course, you've failed to comply with my new
rule in your email...
But I do have to say, your MIS-interpretation
of my ideas is quite entertaining...
"...a guy should be MEAN AND JERK to attract
women..."
Now THERE'S an idea you should get out and try.
The concept of "Being mean and JERKING".
It just might work for you.
Do yourself and everyone you know a favor, and
learn how to read and comprehend complex concepts
like HUMOR...and FLIRTING.
Until that time, continue to fully expect and
tolerate that curious and persistent dry feeling
you have right at the point where your legs meet.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey Dave,
All I can say is your dating tips really work!!
I am 53 year old man spending a fantastic,
romantic 4-day weekend with a wonderful 39 year
old women that I just meet a few weeks ago.
I am taking a short break from this weekend's
activities to email a few other female friends
that are in their early 40's - all are witty,
smart and attractive.
I was married for a long time and had not dated
for 30 years. Was not sure how to start.
WOW - You have helped me get well on my way.
Best regards to you, J
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, yeah, yeah... you always were a SHOW OFF!
Nice!
You know, one of the things that I love about
this material is that INTELLIGENT guys can "get"
it and start using it almost INSTANTLY.
Once you get it, you REALLY can improve
quickly.
Welcome back, and congrats on the success.
If you're reading this right now, and you'd
like to learn how to get "back into the game"...
or how to get into the game in the FIRST PLACE,
then make sure you go and check this out:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.
***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***
hello!...my name is c!....i signed up for your
newsletter just to see exactly what is going
through men's minds sometimes...i read quite a few
of them and realized you are absolutely right on
target on the way to pick up women and what to say
to them...women love arrogance... but, to my
question....i am normally the outspoken life of
the party...have a bit of an attitude...and don't
have any problem picking men up...but the thing
is...i am the aggressive one...i pursue the prey
with no fear...and many men do approach me but,
they are normally the idiots who never talk to
anyone...they see i am very easy going and easy to
talk to..i talk to EVERYONE...i never get the
arrogant bastards like i want...the guys are
always too SENSITIVE...and overbearing, feely
feely....i had once went out with an arrogant man
as yourself...the techniques you described , i
wouldn't doubt if he had your book...but it kept
me
coming back for more...he knew what to say and
when to say it..ALL THE TIME.......a friend of
mine had actually hooked us up....but..how do i
find them?...how do i get that arrogant bastard to
approach me...and what are the signs to look
for?....i would really appreciate this advice....i
and many of my friend...HELP!
C
>>>MY COMMENTS:
LOL!
Well, I'm not sure that I can help you find an
"arrogant bastard", but you did say something that
I'd like to comment on...
You said that "...guys are always too
SENSITIVE... and overbearing, feely feely..."
TRANSLATION: Guys act like WUSSIES!
Now, the funny thing is, I KNOW what kind of
woman you are. You're FUNNY, INTERESTING, AND
CHARISMATIC.
I'm sure of it. Guaranteed.
You're the kind of woman that men DREAM ABOUT.
You probably enjoy life, have fun whatever
you're doing, know what you want... etc. You're
probably successful in your line of work, have a
life of your own... and on and on.
You're also the kind of woman that most men
have NO idea how to deal with.
Most guys will turn you OFF within 3 seconds of
the introduction, because they'll start acting all
nice, polite, and sweet.
BORING.
I'm not sure that I can help you in your quest
for an "arrogant bastard", but I'll feel free to
use your email to demonstrate that women like
yourself are NOT interested in men who are "feely
feely".
***SUCCESS STORY***
A friend got me your books as a birthday present,
being that before then I was pretty pathetic with
the ladies, Being a wrestler made it all the more
of an insult. When I did get a relationship, it
would never last more than a week, and nothing
would come out of it. Well, after reading your
stuff I realized how much of a wuss I was. I did
almost every wuss thing in the book, not to
mention just having a severe lack of confidence...
Just to see what works, I went on one of those
picture rating sites. I'll tell ya, of 3 pictures
I ranked from 6.5 to 9.5. The 6.5 one being me as
a well groomed nice guy with a smile and the 9.5
as me a year later in a cast with a "pissed off
drug dealer" look (I'd been missing a season or
wrestling, it was only fitting). I realized the
nice guy look wasn't working. I also met about a
dozen girls on that system and just practiced the
c&f on them. I was the one calling the shots,
dropping the boring ones and sticking to the
interesting ones, instead of them choosing
whether I was worthy... The funny part was, they
each started telling me how infatuated they were
with me, and telling me about dozens of guys who
piss them off, where each of those guys were doing
things I used to do by nature... Well, after I
realized that I actually did have it in me, I
brought it all together and started using it on
girls back at college. I'm currently going out
with one of the most beautiful in my college, and
it's you I have to thank for it.
JW, Pennsylvania
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, nice.
You have really spelled it out.
A lot of young, hot women say that men are
"annoying".
What they REALLY mean is that men are BORING
and that they feel no ATTRACTION for them.
As strange as the truth is, ATTRACTION is NOT
triggered by being a "nice" guy.
Nice will never do it.
Of course, as you know, I never suggest that
men act in an ABUSIVE way...
But if you want to get out of the "annoying"
category, you MUST start BEHAVING AND
COMMUNICATING DIFFERENTLY.
PREDICTABILITY is ANNOYING to women.
Being CLINGY is ANNOYING to women.
Acting like a WUSSY is ANNOYING to women.
Congratulations, and thank you for taking the
time to write in and share your success story.
***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***
David,
Can you give some advice to women? I know your e-
mail is just for men but I REALLY need some help.
I've tried to get this guy and I think I need a
change in my attitude towards him. He's hard to
get because he follows this pattern: he calls, he
seems very interested but a few days or a week
later he will change his mind and ignore me (he's
done the same with 2 other girls) or he'll date me
for a while then ignore me then come back a few
months later. This last time he tried coming back
to me while dating another girl still and it
seemed that it was only for sex. I flat out
refused.
Here is what I've tried: If I straight out refuse
him and tell him what I think, he backs off
completely. If I try to be nice and forgiving,
he'll take it and follow the same pattern.
I need a different attitude for when he'll come
back next time (not so serious and not so nice
either)- something that will surprise him. Any
suggestions?
Thanks
AC, San Diego
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, you're not exactly going to like this,
but I'm about to take your email and use it for my
own selfish purposes...
Here's what I heard you say:
"Dear David,
I can't explain it, but for some reason I'm
ATTRACTED to men who are unpredictable, untamed,
successful with other women, and probably BAD FOR
ME."
The thing that REALLY strikes me about your
letter is that you're basically asking me how to
get a guy who probably ISN'T good for you.
Now, why would you go to all the trouble to
think about this, write me an email, etc.?
IT'S BECAUSE YOU CAN'T STOP YOUR ATTRACTION.
You probably KNOW that this guy isn't going to
stay around, no matter WHAT you do...
But you still want him!
Advice to you: Find a different guy.
Advice to guys: Learn from this example.
***QUESTION***
David
First of all your stuff works great. I'm 31 years
old-- been rich, been poor and rich again. I've
been addicted to personal development my whole
life. I even was a top trainer for motivational
guru Tony Robbins and currently run my own seminar
company. Yet your stuff has opened my eyes, not
only does it work with babes (I have an 19 year
old hot Latin.. who's all over me.. and her
friends are hitting on me all the time--enough
said.)
This stuff works great in all areas of life. I
using it in business with great results
I have a question though.
I've been with this girl about 11 months know and
I'm all-ways busting on her..c/f stuff. I love it
and am natural at it. Even start blow-out fights
so we can have make up latter. Interesting
note..the more I do that the more attracted she
becomes. Go figure.
My question is.. Do you recommend doing less C/F
stuff when you've been going out for awhile or do
you pore it on even more?
I'm Sure I know what you'll say, but I want to
make Sure.
Got to run.. Look forward to getting your adv.
stuff
Thanks again, EL- New Jersey
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, first off, I don't recommend STARTING
FIGHTS just so you can make up later.
I don't think that it's necessary to actually
START serious conflicts with women.
While it DOES work in many cases to intensify a
sexual attraction, it doesn't lead to long term
good health.
As for your question about doing more or less
of the Cocky & Funny with a girl that you've been
dating for awhile...
You need to keep doing what WORKS in your life.
Too many men make the mistake of STOPPING the
things that are working.
There is another, less common mistake that some
men make which is to increase the amount of Cocky
& Funny to the point where it becomes predictable,
boring, and annoying.
Once you become comfortable using the material,
you will have a "feel" for it.
Do what works, and stop doing what doesn't.
Every situation is slightly different, and
you're at the point where no "formula" will fit
your situation exactly.
And as for you and your 19 year old hot Latin
girl...
You suck, and no men like you.
***QUESTION***
Yo man!
All You write in your newsletters does make sense,
BUT when do You have time to date/f*** all these
babes if You write such a long newsletters 3 times
a week. I doubt You are so journalistically gifted
to do it just like that.
Correct me if I'm wrong. M Katowice, Poland
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Consider yourself corrected... I write all of
the newsletters, and I have a life.
Seriously, these newsletters DO take me a lot
of time to create...
I've considered having friends and other
contributors "guest write" a few (and I may do
that in the near future), but up until now, I've
written every one myself, by hand.
My goal is to have the VERY BEST free
newsletter that is or has EVER been offered by
anyone, anywhere, on ANY topic.
This is how I communicate with my readers and
family of customers, and it's important.
I estimate that I spend about 12-15 hours every
week actually writing the newsletters, and another
who-knows-how-many hours thinking about, preparing
for, and planning them.
There are times, of course when I work so much
on this stuff that I neglect my social life... I
really do love what I do.
But hey, if I had no time for a personal life,
what fun would THAT be?
No dates makes David D. a dull writer...
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave, I thank God every day for magically making
your emails appear in my mailbox. I don't know
how I started getting them, but the timing
couldn't have been better. I recently became
single. I have always been a wussy doormat.
Fortunately, your emails came along, I downloaded
your e-book, and I took a real hard look at myself
and what has happened to me over the years.
Here is what I found. Every time I tried to keep a
girl at a distance because I already had a
girlfriend or it was a girl I worked with, I would
try to bust on her and scare her away. Guess
what? They loved me more. I also realized that I
loved flirting with old women or my girlfriend's
moms. There was never a chance that I would
really want to hook up with them, so I was C&F and
didn't really care. They thought it was so funny
and cute. Guess what? These older women loved me
too. I have always had better relationships with
my girlfriend's mom than I did with my girlfriend.
In fact, some moms couldn't believe that their
daughter was stupid enough to break up with me.
THE LIGHT WENT ON! I had been practicing all
along on women I wasn't interested in, and the
results were blatantly obvious. I immediately had
a surge of confidence and started playing the C&F
on EVERYONE. I went from buying drinks for
everyone to not buying any drinks (including my
own). How dare someone think that they can talk
to me with out first buying me a drink?
Guys, this stuff works on everyone, and you can
practice it on anyone. Trust me, you will quickly
gain confidence and make it a habit. Then, when
you are out trolling for trim, you will be a
natural.
GOD BLESS DAVE,
M.L. Northern California
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, this is great insight...
Often the women you DON'T want are the ones
that pursue you, while the ones that you are
interested in run away because you're pursuing
THEM.
You must translate this "comfort" to your
interactions with the women you ARE interested in,
and communicate in the same way...
By the way, in your email you said:
"I have always had better relationships with my
girlfriend's mom than I did with my girlfriend..."
Dude, that's not right. Be cool.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey Dave,
A success story from S in Mass...I've been
receiving your newsletters for awhile now and
found them to be full of info. I answered this
woman's personal ad recently, she's 34, I'm 32...I
started using the C&F techniques over the phone,
then got her e-mail address, continued with the
C&F, and sent her my pic...She liked the pic and
all of the other C&F comments I made... like
telling her that I would have to meet her in
person to make sure that she wasn't a man since
she had no pic...Well I met her one night at a
donut shop and we chatted for a bit...To be
different from other guys she's gone out with, I
showed her some card tricks that I've been
doing...They're a real ice breaker and they seemed
to put her more at ease as she had said she was a
little nervous about meeting me..We had plenty to
talk about and she liked the card tricks and
couldn't figure them out...She had told me on the
phone that she was a former stripper at a local
club..She was pretty with a nice body to boot...I
was surprised when she only considered herself a 7
or 8! After the donut shop, we went to get a drink
at a bar and left when it closed....I took her to
her place after that, and I'm not sure what it
was, the C&F, the alcohol, maybe both, but she
couldn't get enough of me....We must have made out
for about 2 hours that night...she asked when she
would see me again..she e-mails me constantly and
even asked if we were an item...and this is only
after one date...I'm looking forward to seeing her
again and a note to all of you who aren't using
C&F, C&F is the bible of getting the hot girls!
***I think she may have read one of your
newsletters before, as we were kissing, she pulled
back a couple times as to tease me,,, she stole
the move I was gonna use on her!***
Hats off to u, Dave Keep the newsletters coming! S
in Mass
>>>MY COMMENTS:
LOL!
You don't realize what a MIRACLE your letter
actually is...
I don't remember recommending that you meet
women in a DONUT SHOP and do CARD TRICKS for them
for a first meeting.
Creative? Yes.
Original? Yes.
Dorky like you read about? Yes.
But hey, if it works for you, then keep it up!
Thank your lucky stars that you were keeping up
the teasing and the Cocky & Funny. You must have
distracted her enough to make her not notice...
lol.
Thanks for the email.
***QUESTION***
Hi David,
Thanks for all you've written. Your writing is
inspired and your wit is great. As a 51 year old
man, my success with your program has easily gone
from 20% to about 85%. I generally use email and
create a non threatening relationship through
emails, including humor, and romantic discussions.
I avoid sex talk, but when I the woman brings it
up, which they always do, I ask them "Are you
trying to seduce me?" Invariably the women wants
to make the next move... It's amazing! There is a
subject however, that you haven't covered.... How
to avoid the broken hearted woman? Your
techniques are so successful, and the women get so
attached to me that I can't get rid of them. It is
a difficult situation. Since I'm certain that this
must happen to you often, I'm wondering how you
deal with the woman who becomes attached to you
like Velcro. I really think it might be
worthwhile for you to write a topic on it. Again,
thanks for your marvelous techniques. With
Kindest Regards, R.D.. Massachusetts.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ohhhh, I see.
So if I write a book and teach you how to get
rich you're going to email me and tell me that
you're having trouble spending all the money, and
your tax bill is too large?
The answer you're looking for is simple:
If you don't want a woman to get attached to
you in the FIRST PLACE, don't talk her more than a
couple of times a week, or see her more than every
week or so.
That's the answer you're looking for.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
First off, your eBook is awesome. I've practiced
c&f on almost every girl I know, both friends and
girls I've dated. It's amazing how much it works
on such a majority of women! Every girl I've used
it on has been unbelievably receptive and cannot
get enough of me. Consequently, my confidence is
boosted. It's one of the best chain-reactions in
the world. Here's some proof:
There's this girl I met (before getting your
eBook), and I got her e-mail address through a
friend. I immediately sent her a message telling
her how beautiful she was, how I've heard good
things about her... you know, WUSS behavior.
Anyway, we started talking on an instant messenger
for a while, and things were going NOWHERE...
until I read a few of your mailbags and got the
eBook that is. This is when I tried c&f and
INSTANTLY turned the tables around. Now she keeps
sending me pictures of her, keeps telling me that
she's never met anyone like me, and actually BEGS
me to get online whenever I can! Remember, this
girl is beautiful... and I rip on her every chance
I get!!! I even catch myself being mean sometimes
when she acts like she's better than everyone, but
she still eats it up. I know that your advice
never includes being mean or hurtful, but I have
learned that getting mad at a girl for dumb things
she does sometimes makes her realize that you're
not another doormat, and that you won't put up
with her bullsh** just for the sake of her
attention. Anyway, there was a question to this
whole thing:
A few years ago, I started dating an 9.5 girl with
a 10 personality. No joke, this girl was smart,
funny, and beautiful. We dated for a little
while, but she ended up moving to another town
with her family. Needless to say, we didn't see
each other anymore. The only contact we had was
an e-mail here and there. Fast forward to 4 years
later, and I move to the same town after finishing
college. I ran into her at a restaurant where she
was a waitress, and she was totally surprised and
glad to see me. I kept my cool, didn't act like
I've missed her, but was still upbeat and funny in
the little time we had to talk. A couple weeks
after I saw her, she e-mails me and tells me that
she wants to hang out. She also said she's seeing
someone, even though he's gone for a few months,
and that she just "wants to talk."
So what do I do here, man? I want to see her, but
as more than friends. I'll obviously keep on doing
what has given me such great success recently,
(c&f, indifference, independence) but I need a
little more advice on the rare "second chance
girl." Should I bail? just be friends? or try for
more using your techniques? Of course I want the
girl that seems impossible to have, but she's
worth it. Any advice would help a lot, really.
Thanks again, you've given a lot of guys a second
chance at more than just women.
RM, Denver
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, I think you should stop letting your
INNER WUSS run free on this one.
Stop it!
Stop being ATTACHED to the situation.
Relax.
If you want to spend time with her, do it.
You have NO IDEA what's REALLY going through
her mind.
She might be seeing a guy casually... he might
not even be a boyfriend.
Or she might be just about to break up with
him.
Or she might be almost engaged to him.
Who knows...
But what I DO know is that you need to chill
out.
If you want to see her, go have tea for an
hour.
Have fun, and don't act like a WUSS around her.
You need to stop treating this like it's going
to make or break your personal happiness.
Think about it for a minute. This girl could
have changed over the last four years, and might
be someone that you don't actually want to be
with.
The point is that you need to CHILL.
Making a woman this important this soon is not
a good idea, and it will probably cause you to do
something stupid.
You're doing fine, now keep it up!
***COMMENT***
David,
I've been getting your newsletter for about a
month now and finally got your book today. I was
a little hesitant at first, but after about 10
pages, like everything else I've seen, I was
hooked. You seem to say and spell out the things
that we all see but can't get quite right in our
heads and I wanted to thank you for it. I have a
cousin who would be one of the 5 people I
definitely need to start hanging around and make
that push to get rid of the wuss that is dying as
I type, and the more I think about why he succeeds
so well, the more your book is proven in my mind.
Everything that I always used to watch in
admiration, I am starting to see myself doing, and
hopefully with some practice, I'll have something
for you to send out to the others who are on their
way to becoming men. Your book is awesome, and
once I get the basics down them I'm sure the
advanced series will kick ass too. I just wanted
to say thanks real quick for all you've done,
congratulations on finding a way to put it in
words, and thanks for giving that first step
towards something new to another dedicated
follower. Time to read again, learn, focus, and
make us both proud.
N from Washington State University
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, you're welcome.
Isn't it great when things that used to make no
sense at all finally begin to come together right
in front of your eyes?
Sometimes just looking at something in a new
way will do that for you.
One of the things my programs do is give you a
BEHIND-THE-SCENES look at how the "naturals" work,
and why they succeed with women.
I like to think of it as going into high school
algebra class, but instead of being handed the
normal textbook, you're getting the TEACHER'S
EDITION with all the answers.
It's like putting on the 3-D glasses when
you're watching a 3-D movie.
All of a sudden, things that never made any
sense before (and things that looked like "magic")
all come together...and you get those "AH HA!"
moments.
It is TRULY AMAZING when you can actually begin
to understand what makes male/female ATTRACTION
happen, and then you can start to REALLY see why
some guys who aren't particularly good looking,
rich, or young wind up with all the women.
...if you're reading this right now and you'd
like to be one of the few men who have the ability
to meet women anywhere, anytime, in any situation,
then I recommend you check out some of my stuff...
You can download my online eBook "Double Your
Dating" right now and be reading it within a few
minutes. It's here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.
My fantastic program "Cocky Comedy" will give
you an in-depth education on the topic of "Cocky &
Funny". It's the powerful communication technique
that instantly sparks and builds attraction, and
I'm the only one who teaches it.
Go watch all the video previews right here:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.
This program is the latest and greatest from
me, and I guarantee that it will take your success
with women to the next level.
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. Make sure you take a minute and look through
all of the other programs I've created to help you
learn how to attract women. You can see them all,
watch video clips, and get details HERE:
http://www.DoubleYourDates.
