Friday, February 26, 2010

Your "Irrational Fear" Of Approaching Women

I got an interesting email from a guy who watched
my "Approaching Women" DVD program, and I thought
I'd take a minute to comment on some of the things
he said...

Here's a part of his email. Read this:


"Hey Dave,

This program you made has been the single most
valuable program for me. This whole thing with
approaching women has basically been subtly
controlling my life for the last 7 years.
It's the one thing that makes no sense to a
rational mind. You did a great job explaining
why us guys feel like we're risking DEATH when
we think of approaching. AWSOME! The other
part that how we can even be really successful
at approaching women but then not do it for a
while and try doing it again and still feel
like we haven't even done it successfully LOL.

On to the important stuff...

Watching you interact with the Wingirls was
soooo amazing. I don't know how much of it
was on purpose but I learned so much by
watching the dynamics you and the girl you
were sitting closest to had. It was obvious
that she was really attracted to you and I
got to see how you handled it. I also saw you
do a little covert thing that really showed
what she saw her self image as. It wasn't all
that confident if you know what I mean.
AMAZING...

...Keep up the amazing work! Everything of
yours I watch changes my life on so many
levels.

J."

>>>MY COMMENTS:

In your email, you started by saying that the
issue of approaching women has been "subtly
controlling my life for the last 7 years."

That's heavy.

But the funny thing is, I know EXACTLY what
you mean...

You also said that "It's the one thing that
makes no sense to a rational mind."

I feel that, too. Welcome to being human...
and having a brain that is MOSTLY irrational.

Next, you mentioned the section in the program
where I talk about how guys feel like they're
literally RISKING DEATH if they dare to approach
a woman they don't know...

Intense stuff.

The fact is that most guys DO feel an intense,
irrational, uncontrollable FEAR when we even
THINK about approaching a woman.

I personally think that the PAIN of the fear
combined with the PAIN of not being able to
control it... combined with the PAIN of it not
making ANY sense at all... can really effect
a guy's self image and self esteem.

And it only compounds and intensifies over
time. Years and years of this can eventually
lead to serious emotional problems, as you
might well know.

The reason I spent so much time going over
the FEAR aspect of approaching women... and
taking time to not only explain how and why
it's happening, but also how to get PAST that
stuff... is because if you don't get it and
then get past it... it can literally CONTROL
YOUR LIFE.

Now, what I REALLY liked in your email was
your comment about watching me interact
LIVE with women on stage.

As you can see, I actually "walk my talk,"
and the attitudes and concepts I talk about
in my programs are REAL. They're how I live
my life... and how I communicate.

There were some great moments in that
conversation. When you say that you saw me
do some "covert" stuff, I don't actually
know what you're talking about... but I'm
flattered that you think I'm that cool and
sophisticated!

Anyway, thanks for the comments and the
compliments... I appreciate them.

By the way, if you're reading this right
now and you'd like to get the most intense
education available on APPROACHING WOMEN,
then go and get yourself a copy of this
program immediately.

I'll send it to you to try for a month at
my risk...

As you know, this is a "covert trick." I
know that if you watch this program, you're
going to get at least TEN TIMES as much as
it cost back in VALUE... and I know you
wouldn't send it back for ten times the
money.

I'm serious... go order it, and try it out
for a month. On me.

The details, plus some great free video
preview clips, are all here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/ApproachingWomen

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.


P.S. If you'd like to become a master of approaching
women... and getting dates... then you owe it to
yourself to check out all of the different
programs I've created to help you learn this very
important skill. You can see them all here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/Catalog