Friday, February 26, 2010

Use Valentine's Day To "Your Advantage"

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In a moment, I'm going to reveal to you two
word- for-word emails you can send to women around
Valentine's day - that you'll have HUGE success
with.

But first, let me ask you a question:

Have you ever thought about what a HUGE deal
that Valentine's Day is for women?

In case you didn't realize this, there are
literally MILLIONS AND MILLIONS of women who are
all FREAKING OUT right now.

Why?

Because Valentine's Day is coming, and it's a
VERY BIG DEAL to them.

It's the special day that comes once a year...
that a woman spends celebrating love with her
special guy.

What if she doesn't HAVE a special guy?

EXACTLY.

She freaks out.

Now, I want to tell you... you can use this
insight to your advantage in a big way.

First, let's remember that every single woman
who is hoping to meet a man before Valentine's day
fits into one of two basic categories:

1) She wants a long-term relationship

2) She wants a great guy to date casually

Here's why this is important:

If YOU don't know what YOU are looking for,
then you're going to hurt your chances of
attracting a woman BADLY.

Women have great "radar" systems.

If you aren't clear about what you want, then
you're going to be sending mixed signals... and
not the GOOD type of mixed signals.

Women like men who know what they want, and
know where they're going.

Most single guys haven't really taken the time
to reflect on what they want SPECIFICALLY... so
they come across as confused, unclear, and wishy-
washy.

NOT hot.

Let me give you an example of what I'm talking
about, so you can see it with your own eyes...

Let's say you're going to contact women who
have a profile on an online dating site.

If you're looking for a relationship, TALK
ABOUT IT. Say it, both directly and with hints.

If you're just looking for a date, talk about
the DATE. Talk about going on a fun DATE. Talk
about having FUN.

For example, here's an outline for an ad that
you might run if you're looking for a long-term
relationship:

###

Subject: "Special Valentine Wanted"

Body: Valentine's Day is coming up fast, and it
would be amazing to meet a great woman who is
interested in having a deep, meaningful long-term
relationship.

I realize that we're probably not going to be
getting married by V-Day, but it would be great to
meet a woman who is going in the same direction!

Let's get a cup of tea on Valentine's Day, and
have a conversation to see if we're compatible.

If we're getting along, then maybe we can have
dinner and get to know each other better.

About me: (write about your personal strengths
here, with a focus on honesty, loyalty,
communication, good friendships, etc.)

If you're looking for someone special, then write
and tell me about yourself, and let's talk on the
phone to see if it makes sense to get together on
Valentine's Day to get to know each other better.

###

...and here's a sample ad that you might run if
you're looking for a date and to have a good time:

###

Subject: "Valentine's Adventure Wanted"

Body: Want to spend Valentine's Day doing
something fun? Since neither of us have a
"special" someone yet, we might as well enjoy
ourselves, right?

Let's start out with a cup of tea and some
interesting conversation (this way, if one of us
is really strange, the other one can run away by
making a good excuse!)

If we both survive the "Tea Test," then let's go
have a great meal at (enter name of an interesting
local restaurant in your area that is casual, but
has great food... ethnic is good).

About me - I'm (write about your personal
strengths here, with a focus on adventure, fun,
humor, and optimism - discussion of how you're
contributing to the world is a big bonus).

Let's have fun on Valentine's Day, and make all
our sappy friends who are already in happy
relationships sick!

###

Get it?

Now, do yourself a big favor and RE-WRITE the
ads above if you're going to use them.

Put the same ideas in your own words.

Of course, you can use the exact same ideas and
themes if you're meeting women IN PERSON over the
next couple of weeks.

The key is to KNOW what you WANT.

You'll get what you want faster, the woman you
meet will be happier, and everyone will have a
better time.

One more quick thought:

Valentine's Day is one of those interesting
times in life that acts as a sort of DEADLINE.

Women feel a tremendous amount of emotional and
psychological PRESSURE to have a date for
Valentine's day (whether they are in a
relationship or not).

Now that you know this, it's important that you
take this opportunity to really work on your
approaches, your Inner Game, and your
confidence... because there's no better time to
practice than NOW.

So there's a great way to use Valentine's Day
to your ADVANTAGE (and to HER advantage as well).

When you get clear about what you want, and
then communicate it (and you do it NOW, while the
"iron is hot" with Valentine's Day just around the
corner)... you'll get what you want faster.

And remember this:

A woman wants TWO things MOST from a man:

1) She wants a guy who has his "Inner Game"
together - meaning his self-confidence, his sense
of direction in life, and his ability to stay on
his course in life

2) She wants a guy who knows what to DO in each
key situation when he's with a woman, meaning how
he holds himself, how he walks, how he talks, and
what he does to take the relationship from one
step to the next in a smooth, natural way

Now, unfortunately, most men don't have EITHER
OF THESE THINGS together.

Us guys don't get a "manual" with "directions"
in it on how to act around women when we're born
(unfortunately).

We don't know how to increase our confidence,
how to take things smoothly from one step to the
next with a woman, and all the other stuff that's
CRITICAL to dating success.

So we're left to figure it out for OURSELVES.

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until Valentine's Day is upon us.

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